Would you let your 16/17 year old daughter wear any of these outfits and are they appropriate or modest?

[Anonymous]

Outfit 1

Outfit 2

Outfit 3

Outfit 4

Outfit 5

Outfit 6

Outfit 7

Outfit 8

Outfit 9

In your opinion, do you think they are modest/appropriate and would you let your teenage daughter wear them?

Yes

No

Some of them

Don’t know

[KennethNoisewater]

This is probably the first fashion question I've noticed on this sit like this. I feel strange answering it but I have to ask 2 maybe 3 questions
1st question is- I would like to know the reasons someone would question this group of clothes. Can anyone tell what's wrong with them?
2nd question is- are those corduroy pants? Are those making a comeback? That's rad if they are
Last question is- are the 90's as a whole making a coming back? That decade will soon just be remembered as the last good decade. Long live the 90s

[Asker]

Answer to your first question, is that well I mean maybe the skirts and dresses because they are short and they are above the knee. And for the rest of the outfits, someone said that they were offended with the 4 & 5 because they were unfeminine and that pants are way more revealing thanks skirts and dresses.

[OpenClose]

I mean whatever. She's a girl and wants to express herself.

I'd probably have a talk about "juicy" pants or something just so she's aware that these things "do" matter to how people will perceive her, regardless of whether she thinks they "should". And just caution against it. But I doubt I'd literally tell her not to wear certain things unless it's way over the top.

[Asker]

What are “juicy” pants?

[OpenClose]

It was probably more of a thing in the early 2000's when I was in school. Basically skinny sweatpants/leggings that say "juicy" across the ass. Some people in my neighborhood used to have like 12 year old girls with "juicy" on the ass and "sex doll" on the boobs and it was like WTF.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

The shirts and pants all look appropriate, I dont see anything wrong with those. The dresses and skirts are too short, they should reach your knees at least. If they were longer, I wouldn't mind any daughter of mines wearing any of these outfits.

[Asker]

What’s wrong with showing knees?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Personally, I find dresses/skirts more likely to be inappropriate than pants since if you sit the wrong way or move too much, you can expose more than you'd like. If a dress is longer, you have less chance off showing too much and can be more comfortable in general.

[ShellyB]

They all seem OK, there are 2-3 that are barely OK but they are still OK. Most of them are totally fine like I don't know why anybody would question them. Just my opinion!

[mstbooblover]

As someone else already wrote here, I don't see anything wrong with any of these outfits, and if one of those appeared to be sincerely her choice, why should I annoy her uselessly? Let's just say that the very short ones would require some caution in the field of the circumstances she would wear them.

[Asker]

What if she wasn’t going anywhere out in public and wearing them? Would that still be ok?

[mstbooblover]

Do you mean she would wear them home only for instance? What's the problem there? Sure that would be OK, because she most probably would want to check herself and maybe discover what's best for her figure. Teens are in the mental state of discovering themselves. Nothing wrong with that.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Yep! They are all great! And I love the fact that some of them are very stylish, yet not slutty and won't make you look like one so it's a great way to appear good looking but not in a way that will attract the wrong people.

[Asker]

Thank you! Lol! The outfits abound are my style and I tried to pick out modest ones. I still don’t see why showing knees are immodest?

[Asker]

Above* so sorry.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Because legs are EXTREMELY hot so it make the line between "stylish" and "hot" VERY THIN! Of course, "hot" isn't the same as "slutty" and will not necessarily attract people who only want to have sex with you but when you are 16... eh, I don't know!

The problem is that I (and a lot of other people) am not someone that only wants to have sex so I cannot tell you if it attracts this type of people. But to me, they seem fine. Maybe you can avoid outfit 8 until you turn 22. Have fun!

[Asker]

Thank you! I like these type of clothes and style because I like to feel confident and I like fashion.:)

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I also love women that are "stylish", yet not "slutty" and I rarely see them here in my city. Good luck and have fun ;)

[Asker]

What is “slutty”?

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Shorts (shorter then the pic), clothes that reveal a LOT of skin (especially in the breast and belly area), the color black (especially leather black clothes), high heels (especially the thin ones) as a general.

Of course, this isn't something "universal" as a lot of guys may not consider these "slutty" but I think I speak for a lot of men. Also, the high heels are 50/50 to be honest. They can be considered stylish when you are in a special occasion but for a regular basics, there are other great choices that I love to look at.

These are some good things to avoid to have less chances to give bad vibes and attract the wrong guys.

[Asker]

But what if like I’m wearing black jeans with a turtleneck? Or high heels with a dress for dinner for example? Of course I would cover my belly area and I don’t really like shorts

[Asker]

So I don’t really wear skirts or shorts above the knee anymore.. I do try to be modest so I can be respectful

[KoolKita]

I think that they are all really cute and modest, but numbers 3, 7, and 8 are too short (above the knees), so I would say no on those ones.

[Immie85]

There are all perfect. I love and trust my daughters (15 and 13 years old). It’s important that they can express themselves, feel confident in their bodies and know that they can dress for themselves. They are beautiful

[Msputiton]

I am surprised this is even a question.

Not one of these are inappropriate.

I really hope your parents aren't stressin you over this

[Brandon315]

Everything in this list looks to be extremely stylish, and, back in highschool I wouldn't have batted an eye. That being said. No to the short skirts, there is just too much being shown normally, and if a stiff breeze ever came through... PS. I'm not a parent 😅

[VanessaValentine]

It took me until I was 19 to realize that how I dress attracted different guys. Those outfits will only attract low confident beta males.

[Asker]

I know, it’s just like this is my type of style I like and would probably wear but I wouldn’t wear the skirts or dresses because it isn’t knee level.

[VanessaValentine]

If you want to attract the tall dark and handsome successful type that we all want wear modernized 50s housewife clothes. It attracts those men better than anything else.

[Asker]

I don’t want to or mean to attract anyone. The outfits abound are just the clothes that I like and make me feel confident. I wear them for myself.

[Asker]

above* I mean that I don’t mean or want to attract certain guys with the outfits I wear.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

This one looks good, I like this one

[Summeroflove]

Yeah those are actually very good outfits. They aren’t super sexual or revealing and are very stylish

[bubblegunnn]

Back when i was teenager, i mostly wearing outfit 2.. then after 20ish til now i mostly wearing outfit 5 and 9.. even baggier

[bamesjond0069]

4 and 5 I find offensive. I think dressing ugly/unfeminine is just as bad as dressing slutty.

Then in general pants are more revealing than skirts but there is a time and place for most clothes.

[Asker]

Then what are we supposed to wear if skirts, dresses and pants are all revealing?

[bamesjond0069]

I didn't have an issue with skirts or dresses.

[Asker]

The thing is, I can’t wear dresses and skirts right now because it’s way too cold for them and I don’t have any tights to go with them since they are at the knee or an inch shorter. So I have to wear pants instead.

[bamesjond0069]

Why would that matter about the tights? Just get some basic 3 for 10 pack at the store would be sufficient I'd think.

[Asker]

Okay! I’ll start wearing skirts/dresses (they’re above the knee though is the only problem) and plus I’d only wear them at home or around my family.

[Asker]

Because it’s cold right now where I AM and might not be appropriate as well.

[AviatorTom]

I'd ask her to wear a shorter skirt in outfit 8, but I'd be fine with the others. They's all appropriate for a 16/17 year old.

[suzzieQ]

I don't see anything wrong with any of those outfits. I would imagine that if anyone does, I would be more concerned about them sexualize a teenage girl.

[hahahmm]

Yes to the pants and sweaters. No to the short skirts. She can wait till she has her own place to live before dressing in short skirts.

[Prettygurl12]

Sure - why not? I don't really care for the dress/tights/sneaker combo, but it's not inappropriate.

[DesiUwU]

bro those skirts are longer than what i see most girls wear these days. all of them are super modest and mild, especially for a 16-17 yo

[Kaneki05]

No such thing as "Let" to something I don't control.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Of course! These are such cute and comfortable outfits that they could wear.

[CruelSun7]

I don't see anything wrong with clothes. Especially if you compare these to what teenagers wear these days, these are quite modest.

[SnowedIn]

Great outfits, appropriate, and I'd let my daughter wear them.