Girls, Why is a girl taking note of everythig i'm doing?

[ando90]

I've noticed this girl has noticed my haircut and complimented that. She also said to me when I bumped into her on street " you have a bottle of pepsi" and smiled. Then today she said when she served me " oh you're paying for your friend today that's nice of you" and smiled.

She and I have getting closer and becoming comfortable with each other. She accepted my Facebook friend request and she literally just serves me for coffee. She even said ' she was glad I added her on facebook".

I feel really down cause she mentioned a boyfriend but doesn't talk about him much. I don't see any photos of her and a boyfriend. But I really like her 😔

[coldmarch]

I don't think she is "taking note", but she simply uses what she sees as an excuse to say something. If she serves coffee probably she is used to be friendly with customers so it's in her personality to pick something to say of positive, maybe, just for chit chat. Also accepting a friend request doesn't mean "flirting", Facebook is not a social dedicated for flirting, so she might have added you "just because". I tend to think all these things because you say she has a boyfriend. She might have one but doesn't like putting photos on social media, or she might have lied, just to push away because you were too obvious in being interested in her (I don't know). Both things don't look good so I think so far you shouldn't pursue her on purpose, just talking normally. If you say you're getting closer she will also say something about this boyfriend spontaneously, I guess. In any case mentioning boyfriend means "keep distance", so for now better keeping that distance until she does any other move (if she does). If you go too far with your interest in her she would push away more, I think.

[ando90]

I went about my business and she still engaged in conversation with me, that was her seeing me walking back to my car and stating ' oh you have a bottle of pepsi". She is still really happy to talk to me. Even today i noticed she looked at me when I was sitting with my friend chatting

[ando90]

But she and I having in depth conversations lasting 25min 3 days in a row. She is contributing just as much. She even said from the kitchen " oh you had a haircut it looks nice" with a smile. So I know she is throwing things out there to gain attention. I was minding my own business