Is this just Friendly Or Flirty?

[Gangcloak435]

So this girl who randomly hits me at work told me that me and her have the same body types today, She spoke to me about the way my body looks before. Today me and her were working we were hitting eachother playfully when we either passed by eachother or just doing something but there was a point when me and her were close by making a smoothie and she bumped me with her hips. So this happend yesterday I guess my co worker long ago told her i had a girlfriend, i never talked about my personal life with her she then tells me "how long you been with your girlfriend", out of the blue, which scared the shit out of me. She also is a big extrovert she dances in front of people, she doesn't give a shit I'm an introvert, she also asked me to teach her Spanish before she left today, because i usually talk to this old lady who talks to me in Spanish.

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds flirty to me. There are at least signs of it. Be careful though, workplace relationships are dangerous. First, there is the chance the employer won’t even allow them. There are a lot of reasons for that.

They know that there is a loss of productivity and attention to detail. There is also the trouble that can follow a breakup. If it isn’t amicable, things can get messy and disrupt the work environment.

Then there is the question of what happens with you two if a bad breakup. Can you work together or see her dating someone else? Possibly a coworker? Can you deal with working with her every day? So, just take those things into consideration before moving forward.

She does sound flirty though and more than friendly gestures. Ask her to grab a coffee after work or something and see what she is like one on one outside or the workplace. That will tell you everything you need to know.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[19magic]

Umm if you do want to take things further with her then please break up with your girlfriend, that's not nice on her.

But it does sound like she's flirting with you, is she laughing/teasing you after any of these gestures?

[Gangcloak435]

I can't really see because she has a mask but im pretty sure she is. Also she be punching me and shoulder tackling me when i dont expect it

[Ευδεμονια]

I think honestly she’s interested, there’s evidence. And you seem to be too, since you don’t take your distances! Maybe you can try to ask her out for something friendly OUT of work, since at work it’s better not to keep relationships evident… I think she’ll agree.

[Guy13]

Friendly but testing.. slightly flirty.

[Gangcloak435]

How is she testing me?

[Guy13]

She is trying to get a general feel or Vibe from you. If the Test has positive vibe then she may become more aggressive in her behavior. Either way, the door has been cracked so that you will push it open...

[Guy13]

Make sense?

[Gangcloak435]

Very much so. Thanks man

[Guy13]

Yep, good luck !!

[slatyb]

She clearly likes you. Ask her out.

[In_Trance]

She couldn't make in any more clear