Why is this girl in my project so rude and obsessed with everything I do?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl in my dance class we have a major project but there is this one girl who is literally so overly obsessed with everything I do to the point it’s becoming verbal abuse and bullying, she keeps yelling at me in the most rudest way possible, she makes fun of me at times when I don’t do something right etc. she literally gettint on me for 2 weeks straight and nobody else but me and she keeps making me look bad. When I did a dance move wrong she literally yelled at me once again and make me and my 6 members stop dancing she mocked the wha I danced and said “what is this? That’s not even in the dance!” I have no idea what is wrong with this prick. She keeps getting on me and nobody else plus she’s all the way in the back of the line not next to me which means she has to look at me or lean in to pay attention to everything I do when I was dancing once I kept seeing her stare at me? I literally don’t know what this girls problem is? She gets on me nobody else and she keeps yelling at me like I’ve done something really mean too her. She yelled at me soo soo loud once someone walking by said “what happened?” Seriously?

[jennifer_bloom]

Bullies target others to get an ego boost, to scare others into being nice to them, or because they are jealous, some might do it because they have nothing to talk about unless they invent drama, I heard about a woman who routinely targeted popular women for bullying and 5 girls had restraining orders against her.

[Asker]

Yeah true, on social media I’ll say I’m kinda popular I get a lot of compliments from guys online alof of my teachers called me pretty etc I used to model when I was in middle school (I’m not known tho) I don’t know if she could’ve been bullying me because of jealously because I’ve done absolutely nothing to her it could’ve been the case

[jennifer_bloom]

She might be trying to make it an example out of you to scare others so they do not violate her interests. During the African slave trade in the 1800s, the white slave owners would torture randomly selected black slaves so that the other black slaves would be too scared to disobey their abusers.

[Blackcosmo]

Sounds like she's jealous. She's trying to find something small about you and make you feel bad it to boost her ego. She's trying to put you down and make you feel worthless because that makes her feel better.

[Xwarriorsxx]

Definitely jealously. Jealous people like to pay attention to everything you do she’s making you look bad on purpose

[Anonymous]

Perhaps you're better than her? How flexible are you both?

[Asker]

I’m fairly flexible I’m not sure about her tho, I’m not sure that’s the reason but all my life I’ve had a lot of girls gossiping about me etc. on social media I have a lot of followers and I. Get a lot of compliments etc so I don’t know if jealously played a part or if she was having a bad day and put it on me or she could’ve just be honest but she probably was very rude about it for whatever reason