Are there more asshole guys or bitchy women in the workplace?

[Anonymous]

I have worked in corporate marketing for over 15 years and I’ve ran into all sorts of characters.

Recently I did research for a client for business sector that we weren’t paid to manage. I did it as a favor. They female director responded with a “that’s completely wrong and that’s not what we asked for”. She felt entitled to free work and research that her company isn’t paying for.

I have ran into plenty of hard working and profesional women that don’t act that way. But I’ve also noticed that some women think that being rude/bitchy/demanding is somehow the equivalent to male professionalism/leadership. It’s not even close. A man would never respond to me the way this cunty women did after we did her a favor that was outside of contract

That’s not to say there are plenty of asshole managers/directors out there. There are. But from my observations they tend to get called out more for mistreating coworkers/subordinates vs how some female managers/directors behave.

Bitchy women

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Just a FYI I am not talking about dating, interpersonal experiences, school, etc. Just the workplace.

[Guy13]

Women are more bitchy across may venues... workplace being one of them. Genetic code...

[Asker]

I’m fine if there is an even balance of female colleagues and I have a male boss. Female bosses more often then are unnecessarily difficult. They think they have to be extra bitchy to establish some sort of “dominance” since they think I inherently don’t respect them as much. All I care about is getting the job done.

[Guy13]

I agree with you but it’s like they come in with their chips on their shoulders. It gets old. I mean at all levels too as I also deal with public…some not quite middle class and it seems to be same across all these days.

[Asker]

You are supposed to behave differently in business situations and personal interactions. You can be polite/friendly but also direct about what you need to get done. I think men are naturally better at that. We are also better at being leaders. It’s not “sexist” for me to say that either. It’s just the truth.

[Guy13]

You said it much better... they bring that personal relationship vent into the workplace and it is like everyone is the enemy. They wonder why promotion is sometimes difficult.

[MCheetah]

Bitchy women. Because women tend to make everything about themselves.

[Imsmurter1]

I have problem with a lot of people but more often it’s women then men but a fair share of everyone.