She is always moody with me, should I make a move?

[Anonymous]

This girl is always moody with me, she can be super sweet to me and then looks like she is disgusted by me a few hours later. She does not do this to everyone else though, her personality is very stable when she talks to others, so I’m sure she only does this to me. I like her and want to ask her out, not so concerned about getting rejected, just don’t want to make her uncomfortable. Should I make a move now?

[Midgetmcwidget]

Say oi face ache, want to date me or not? 👍 😉 I’m sure she will soften to you after that and purposely smile at you every time she sees you. 😂😂😂😂😂

[Midgetmcwidget]

Did you take my advice?

[Asker]

Thank you for your suggestions. I didn’t do exactly what you said as it is a little too bold for me, but I did try to ask her out twice for the past 24 hours, and twice she had excuses to turn down my offer. I don’t think there is anything else I can do now. Appreciate your suggestions anyway, she was just the wrong one to hear it.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Anytime my friend. I know what you mean have liked a guy for nearly a year and he liked me, he saw me today after being away for a few weeks and blanked me 😭 not sure what happened over the last few weeks but I’m devastated

[Asker]

Might be the timing. I was convinced this girl likes me a lot but I wasn’t ready back then, and she probably had her feeling hurt because of me. I can see she is happier to see me just a few hours ago, but I don’t have motivation to ask her out for the third time now. She might be wondering why did I stop trying in the next few days. It almost feels like a trap, once we are in, there is no way getting out no matter how hard we try

[Asker]

He might had his feeling hurt cause he believed you didn’t like him. It’s honestly emotionally consuming, one person would make effort while the other is validating, first person getting hurt, then the other one would realize what happened and try the same thing. Except it never reaches the point where it works

[Midgetmcwidget]

Yea, I have tried to peak to him the last time I saw him, he was walking off then I saw him in my car park, he parks in a different one, saw me arriving and drove off. Fast forward two weeks been cold af. I don’t know what I’ve done but try my hardest.

[Midgetmcwidget]

I’m shy with a guy a like and tried to make conversation. If he won’t acknowledge me how can I register my interest

[Asker]

I can’t message anyone because I’m only level one. Feel free to message me if you want someone anonymously to share the frustration, might be able to help if I know more details

[Midgetmcwidget]

Not sure how I do that. I’ll try, about to sleep nearly midnight

[Midgetmcwidget]

What’s your username?

[Asker]

mlvrjohnconnor

[Asker]

I can see you followed me, but I still can’t message you

[LazerBean]

Why would you want to date someone who displays emotionally instability?

[Asker]

She was super nice to me for several weeks and I was depressed because of work so I didn’t ask her out back then. I guess I blamed myself for her behavior. Now that I have tried to be super warm towards her for several weeks, so I guess we are even now. Nothing else I can do, time to move on

[Pegases]

The worst she can say is no. You're just asking a simple question, dont make it a bigger deal than it needs to be. Go ask

[Guy13]

Exactly. Ask her out and take control of this.