I can’t tell if I’m a self absorded attention whore? I think outside of that I’m a kind person and am I bad because of that?

[Anonymous]

I feel like an energy absorbing attention whore. Im loud and annoying and make big gestures and exaggerate my personality when Im talking to people because I love social settings. I cut people off when they speak and I feel I act like the world orbits around me. I’m constantly worried my friends feel I’m always talking about myself. How can I accurately assess whether I’m a self absorbed bitch and a bad person?

[Maniwishiwashome]

I think this common for women now a days. I think it’s good that your aware of it. Not all attention is good attention.

[Asker]

I get in my case that I am trying to analyze whether that truly applies to me or if I just feel that way because I felt bad about myself during that moment but I cannot condone you generalizing women “now a days” for no reason. I could make a generalizations saying guys now are disrespectful to women they find unattractive and feel victimized because women are verbal about their opinions but that would be a big generalization to put on a large group of people.

[Maniwishiwashome]

You may not like but women get way more attention then a men do. This by no way was a attack on women, but just a observation.

[Wise4myage]

Being a self absorbed attention whore is not good. Google "self absorbed"

[Asker]

I never said it was good that’s why I im trying to o figure out if I am one of stop if am.

[Topaz1979]

Your self awareness is off the charts!!! That’s a great thing it’s great to be self aware! All you have to do now is improve the parts of yourself you dislike!😊

[DavidRaul]

I think you have already explained yourself

[Anonymous]

I can tell you: you're a bitch