Competing for a girl is pretty cringeworthy to me. The only time I ever dated a girl or given her my efforts is when she showcased clear attraction and made herself very available. I think guys get the pursuit of women wrong. As a man, you should focus on conquering, establishing yourself, and moving up in the world. Women don't come into that equation at all. When you're killing it in life, beautiful women will all of a sudden make themselves available. They will make it very easy for you to date them. Only then should you pursue. If this girl you're interested in is seeing another guy- then have some self respect. Tell her you're interested in her, and if she still wants to fuck around with someone else... then MOVE ON. She ain't worth the distraction in your life.
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If you have to compete, cease all contact. No woman is worth competing for... EVER! You just falling for game.
You once moved for away, so yea she was well within her right to seek out someone else. Now the both of you live together and she acts like you're a couple? I don't get where exactly you're going with this. You shouldn't have to compete at all.
She sounds like a piece of work. Not worth it.
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You don't do it. You don't compete for a woman; EVER. Women are not worth the headache.
Sounds like she hasn't made her mind up yet, but it sounds really shady and weak. I would just ignore it and if it seems to be escalating, start making a backup plan for if she decides to date the other. You really don't deserve to be second after moving all that way specifically just for her.
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I don’t play those game no I don’t compete with girls over a man that’s ridiculous like she’s some kind of a prize like a toy she either talk to me alone and no body else or I don’t waste my time with her. That sounds like a Golddigger a woman that talks to several men at once
fuck her off and go live your own life brother... this situation is not leading to a fantastic destination.
If she's the one creating competition, bye Felicia. Like Jamesrandidebates mentions, "the endless shit tests" and it can be emotionally draining.
Get rid of this woman. The other guy is doing you a favor by taking the bullet.
Big mistake. You should never compete for love or another person's attention.
If she deep down desires you then no other man stands a chance with her but you.I wouldn’t hang around there if that’s what she’s doing
Lesson learned. Women immediately lose respect for a man who uproots his life for her. You need to to uproot her life for you.
She lives with you, so unless you have proof she is seeing the other guy, than don't even mention him.
You love her, by letting go.
Don't complete for a woman. That's pathetic.
No girl is worth a competition.
just be better
never compete period
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