Hi guys,
Long story short. Dated girl for about one week before I traveled back home. It's been about 5 weeks. We've been in constant contact since. Practically every day. She initiated the first two dates, and generally most of our interaction. I'm not lying when I say that the first few weeks it was about 60%-40% of her initiating and texting.
Then she went kinda silent. She kept texting me "I'll get back to you" over a few days, so I figured her interest was real low. Then I showed a bit more interest just to make it clear that I'm also liking what we have and she was back. That same night she was out with her girlfriend and called me at night while drunk.
Then some two weeks later she went cold again. I had by then noticed that when she shows too much interest (calls me when drunk, texts a lot and generally sends lots of pictures) that she goes distant. So like I did the last time I texted her something cute wishing her a good day and that I think she's a great person. She was back again.
Then she was at a party and it looked like she was sending me a bunch of pics on Snapchat of different guys she was hanging out with, especially one of her guy friends and it looked like she was trying to make me jealous. I didn't react, just texted the party looked fun.
Then she went cold again. But then a day or so later I had lots of stuff going on and didn't reply to one of her texts and... she bombarded me with "hey, why haven't you been online so long?", "just checking in on you". I responded and she was back.
And here's the most important part. We texted a bit yesterday and she told me something along the lines of "I've got so much to tell you over the phone" to which I replied "okay, so when do you have time for a chat?" and she responded with that typical response when girls downright reject a guy: "You know what, I've got so much going on right now and I'm busy so I'll let you know".
What does this mean? Is she playing hard to get or has she lost interest?
