
Is having stuffed toys as friends to stop me feeling lonely weird for my age?

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Nope perfectly normal. I saw your other post under the sexuality section, in which you talked about your depression. Therapist Margaret Van Ackeren, LMFT, says, “In most instances, adults sleep with childhood stuffed animals because it brings them a sense of security and reduces negative feelings, such as loneliness and anxiety.” Basically, the tools can provide calmness and a sense of not being alone—much like they might have for you when you were little. A professor from Bristol University found that approx. 1 in 3 people find comfort in keeping a soft toy in their bedroom. There’s nothing wrong with it.
Regardless, I hope you’re doing fine. Spend time doing the things you love and don’t forget to be appreciative for the small things in life. Trust me, the little things do add up. Sending you my well wishes.
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It's not weird, lots of people do that, but it's better to have a cat for that sort of thing, preferably one thats an attention hog, because inanimate objects aren't real company that can give attention back.
Also you really should try making friends, not because of the stuffed animals, but because everyone needs at least 1 friend.
I just find it hard to talk to people irl
Me too honestly, I'm better at making friends online because video games are pretty much my only social hobby, and thats done indoors, so most of my friends I met in gaming lobbies, and we hang out daily online.
It's not really a comforting thing per say, and eventually for my own comfort I'll likily need a girlfriend, a cat, and maybe a few other pets, but it is company and we have fun and it's good boredom relief and spurs my creative side and fulfills my urge to practice skills.
I would suggest you start with trying to find people who like what you like, and just start off conversations about the shared interest/hobby, thats the least forced way to make friends, because neither of you have to do anything you wouldn't normally be doing anyway.
I have a whole collection of them, but I wouldn't say I have them to keep me from feeling lonely. It's not really weird, it's understandable. People suck these days and I've kind of just come to terms with the fact that I will never have real, genuine friends. It's fine! <3
omg that's so sad. I hope that changes for you sometime, you have hopefully 50- or more years to find a genuine connection or maybe even several. <3
No. It is truly a thing to make you feel better as studies show. Soo walking around with a support toy is fine in this day and age. People may think you're the weird one but they are a tad (probably a lot) dumb who don't understand this a thing anyone can do.
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No, it's not weird! And it's cute when adults show their sweeter side.
You are making it a question of age. According to your profile, you're just out of your teens. You can consider yourself an adult by all measures, but you're not done growing up. To be honest, we're never done growing up. We keep learn changing at any age.
Even if a 30-40-50 year old told me they had plushy toys for companies, I would still think the same: that's cute!
I find nothing wrong with it since i've done the same thing, hell I even have this body pillow I use when no one's around and I cuddle with it and treat it as if it were someone i'm dating. Though, I definitely think you should go out of your comfort zone a little more and try to make friends.
No but you should maybe a pet and a little more human interaction which would make you happy.
Say like think about what you're interested in and see if there are any club, s you could join to meet nice people like yourself with similar interests for friendship?
It would only be weird if you thought they were talking to you or something!! What you described is the most normal thing in the world, I am older than you and I still have stuffed animals that can comfort me sometimes when I am upset.
I believe it is perfectly normal to hug stuffed animals or even a little blanket or quilt.
I hid all of mine in my closet for a few years because they made me feel like a kid, but I brought them all back out eventually. Stuffed animals are awesome.
Not weird at all. Hug and hold them. Do what makes you feel better
Nah, you're still a little girl, don't worry.
It's not weird or bad or wrong. With one exception: if you use the animals as an excuse for regular interactions with other humans, that might be a problem and might be worth discussing with someone.
Yea. Very weird. Sounds like you'd been through physical trauma. You should speak to a psychotherapist.
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Weird? Eh, maybe a little. However, you're still a kid until you're at least 26 so I wouldn't worry.
As a follow up, I think that if you're using stuffed animals that maybe you need to meet better humans. Cause humans really suck sometimes.
I have a kid that just loves stuffed animals... I have no idea what it is. I used to hump my pillow so that's as close as I can relate.
Is not weird at all! Is a "companion" that many feel comfortable around, as "they" don't question out emotions/feelings...🤷♂️
With the number of things people are doing these days that are far worse than that, have at it.
No I don't think its weird, especially if it helps you when you feel said or anxious
I have a lot of stuffies. Love them they keep me company
No, a friend of mine said he has a life sized one... shaped like a woman.
That’s not reality that will never work that’s just something to cuddle up with when sleeping. That’s like 1% out of 100 satisfaction it’s not real
Weird? Probably.
But most of my girlfriends over the years still had "stuffies" well into adulthood so I low-key find it hot af.
It's not weird. There are a lot of women who have stuffed animals. My wife is 61 and she still cuddles with a stuffed animal once in a while. If it's comforting to you then why not.
Nope! Stuffed toys offer a lot of comfort for me too, I always buy a new one whenever I’m going through a breakup lol
Who cares? I'm older than you and still have all the Build-A-Bears my dad and grandparents bought for me as a child.
I can only sleep with a pillow in cuddle position, for some reason. Is it weird? Maybe. Do I care? No, I give no fucks.
Nor should you.
it'sv okay. Mty daughter does the same thing.
I don't find it weird , I have my Dapper Dan Doll
Not weirder than people kneeling in front of their bed and talking to an imaginary old man in the sky.
I mean, as long as you don't start having full on conversations with them
They never answer back 🥺
Well, in case they become possessed and they start to, then you've got a real problem, in more ways than one
Better than drugs or alcohol, haha, whatever works for you
Oop 😂
It's not right to waste your time with them. do not you have a family? try to make friends
I live with my grandma and I'm really bad at making friends
My social anxiety won't let me. And most people will hate me anyway
I'm depressed most of the time and ugly
Yes, it's very weird. Try to make connections with real humans.
Nope not weird at all, I still have my teddy bear, even at my age I still sleep with it.
I don't think so, I was in hospital and someone sent a small white bear she's a good friend,
Yeah, probably. But who cares? I'm not judging you.
a little cuddle is a fine thing. pillow, stuffy or b/g friend
I remember I had a bear as a teenager that I had as a baby.
Not really but you know you have people hear that care about you so when you feel lonely hit me up it might help to have someone to talk to
No, not weird at all, I still have at my age and talk with them sometimes, they are fun, I have this tiny reindeer which I keep in my pocket at all times
Here's mine, I have two bunnys 🥰
https://gofile.io/d/oRwjwl
That was... completely unexpected.. I do love your bunnies, do they have names?
Charlie bunny and Snuggles
Snuggles is the little one? Are they in a way relatives? You know it is really weird to get someone arroused like that when bunnies are involved
Yes I love them so much! 🥺
Aww no wonder! They surely are very cute and bring a genuine feeling of happiness and calm, I am actually a bunny in chinese zodiac
Omg that's so cool
I will take a picture or video of my plushies a bit later since I am not home, I have like a green dragon, a turtle some raindeers, a mother elephant with babies
Aww yes please I'd love to meet them!!
You are surely such a sweetheart
Its regressive. Which is usually a depressive state.
Very weird but its common amongst women tho.
My girlfriend cuddles with stuffed animals that I got her when she feels lonely
nope, not at all... We all have our own ways of copping...
Nope quite OK.. I know a lit of people who have a pillow for the same thing.
Certain things can keep us from getting real relationships
Aww. Sorry for what you’re going through. We all cope in our own ways. Hang in there.
Nothing weird about stuffed animals they are soft. If you want to know weird and lonely, look at my tpe doll
Depends. Do they talk to you?
Sometimes
i was feeling like this, but i started to make frindship in instagram whith stranger people..
No that's not weird. I still had them at 20
No not at all. Don't worry about it. That's cute
Not the bestvway but if it works I guess
No it isn't, do what u go do to survive
Somewhat but do what what makes you happy dude
Not weird, I have a teddy bear.
Yes you weirdo
what ever you enjoy and makes you happy
It's better than smoking meth
No, it's cute and endearing.
No, not at all. Its fine in my opinion.
It’s more of a concern
you do whatever comforts you
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