There's this girl in my class, she normally wears casual, every day clothing. Today she turned up in a leather jacket, black jeans and black boots. Personally, I'm a fan of this bold outfit myself, and I've also previously mentioned in class, that I love rock & heavy metal. Thing is, she's not that kind of girl. In fact, she's the polar opposite. I've never seen her sport this look before, in my 2 years of knowing her. Lastly, she's shown numerous signs of attraction to me before, but I'm still not sure if she was flirting, or just being nice. So, what's this mean? Feel free to ask any further questions.
Glad you give permission to ask further questions. Here is my first one. What class at the age of 36-45 are you taking? Just curious is all. Not meant to be an insult. Adult education is a great thing. Improving upon yourself is good at any age.
So, we like to wear different things. It means absolutely nothing. Maybe that was how she was feeling that day and decided to rock something different. We do that. It doesn't mean anything, and I think you are overthinking this a lot.
As far as flirting, there is usually more than one sign. Just being nice isn't enough to say one way or another. She may just be a nice, bubbly type of person. There would have to be a lot more context to the situation.
One surefire way to find out is to ask her for a coffee or lunch. You will get the answer you are looking for by her reaction. All we can do is guess what she is thinking. I wouldn't put too much into the whole clothes thing. I wear different styles from time to time.
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It means she’s human and not some fixed animated character that wears the same style forever and ever. So what if she dressed the same for 2 years, it’s completely normal for someone’s taste in clothing to evolve. You don’t need associate an outfit decision with the comment you made about heavy metal, because that’s just being full of yourself. It may sound rude but that narrative is just super annoying, like when a woman suddenly wear makeup, it doesn’t mean she’s doing it for you.
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If she is covering more, she is less confident in herself, or she is scared to be objectified or both. If she is dressing less, she has definitely developed some confidence and comfort in herself.
Sounds like a fake story to me.
people like to wear different things and change styles all the time lol
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