Does she like me if she is sweet to me for once then rude to me for the other time?

[Anonymous]

First of all, I have no feeling for this lady, I’m just curious.

I went to the pharmacy last month and this lady helped me. She was friendly in a professional manner to the few guys in front of me, but super sweet to me when it was my turn. Had to admit her attention got me carried away a little bit. But I didn’t ask her numbers because she is not my type.

Then I went to the pharmacy again today and she has been professionally friendly to others the same way as last time, but was obviously rude to me.

I would assume she has been rude because she was upset I didn’t ask her for her number. Anyway we can work this around? The other pharmacies are much further away, I don’t want to avoid this pharmacy but don’t want to get this lady in trouble either.

[WhitneySnow]

Ask for her number I guess. Then when you text her and you guys are talking explain how you’re not looking for a relationship rn but you’d love to be friends.

[Asker]

Wouldn’t that lead her on a little bit? Will she hate me so much more when getting my friendzone messages?

[WhitneySnow]

She shouldn’t hate you if you’re friendzoning her for a legit reason

[Guy13]

Get her contact information and be friends. Learn about her and see where it goes. She may not like you as a boyfriend... why do you think she would?