Guys, what do you think of the sweet quiet girl?

[Anonymous]

What does the super popular out going guy think of the sweet quiet girl that turns into a freak once alone at home? Does the overly out going guy need an out going girl too? Or can the girl be more on a straightened arrow, quiet, and sweet?

[Chill_Thoughts]

She can be shy and quiet, it's really about being sweet and trying your best to be confident. If you think you're not worth it or "why would he notice me", you'll subconsciously act in a way that will make him actually not notice you. If you're shy, but try to be nice to him, talkative, etc. He will definitely pay attention to you. Not every guy will be into every girl and vice versa but you definitely have a chance (:

[MCheetah]

She's just my type!

But bad boys and Chads aren't into women like that. So those two never work out in relationships.

[Asker]

Even if the guy is the life of the party and super outgoing? Those guys really would want the sweet quiet girl?

[MCheetah]

I said guys like that DON'T work out with the quiet girl. No, he wouldn't want that, unless he's just using her for sex.

[D-Pad_Chad]

So I need a bit of clarification, when you say freak, as in what exactly?

I know what I'm thinking, but I don't want to assume and give bad advice.

[Asker]

Like a girl that is quiet and reserved in public but is all over you and throwing each other around the second you get home

[D-Pad_Chad]

Ah ok so what I was thinking. A jedi in the streets, a sith in the sheets.

Well if you're talking popularity, a lot of those guys will pump & dump.

But if you're just talking general extroverts it's a bit of a coin flip.

Introverts is kinda the same way, but you might run into a different challenge where Introverted men are overly cautious due to external factors.

Amberverts are probably your best bet, but everyone is different and the personality traits listed above shouldn't be taken as gospel.

I'd also recommend listing more of your traits to give a more rounded idea of what makes you, you. Hopefully that helps.

[misogynistic_pig]

I like sweet women as long as they are submissive.

[Zolly99999]

That type of girl is preferred by a lot of guys.

[Asker]

Even if the guy is the life of the party and super outgoing?

[Zolly99999]

Yes absolutely... you just described me lol and I prefer your type 😁

[Guy13]

My favorite.

[Guy13]

I’m willing to spend 3-6 months so that she can survey, scrutinize, and see if those behaviors and words match…especially since I’m not SMedia friendly.
Time and expense are non-factors if one has a long-term worldview

[Asker]

Even if the guy is the life of the party and super outgoing?

[Guy13]

Yes, as I am that guy and not on purpose. The introverted “crowd pleaser” loves a shy woman to lean forehead to forehead against…maybe opening one eye 👁….

[Mega_illuminati]

Be yourself. No need to hide anything.