It all began 3 months ago, the talking stage that went well lasted 2 months. She would mainly talk to me in friend group, until one day I noticed she stopped talking to me and making eye contact with me and stopped telling her stories like she used to everyday before and instead she would talk to others instead of me (almost like I don't exist).. So it kind of p*ssed me off. I desperately also tried to initiate conversations with her and all but didn't seem to work. I also heard her talking about her crush, so now I know she has a crush, it made me even more mad inside. It worried me so like 2 weeks later (it was late October) I asked her if we can talk about something (basically what's going on with our friendship..) tomorrow morning, she said okay but we ended up not talking about it, it seemed like she tried escaping it and didn't feel like talking with me. She was also cold on me for a month. (we talked but very briefly.. like we're strangers). Deep down I was hurt and couldn't stop thinking about her.
So what I decided to do is to stop talking to her and giving her the attention I used to give before, it's not worth it, I'm wasting my time. On top of that she has a crush, there's no point in trying.. (this lasted around 3 weeks)
All of a sudden she's talking to me like she wasn't cold on me for a month.. She complimented my new shoes, new backpack.. all of a sudden trying to be nice? Saw her leaving college, asked her where she was going, she said drugstore cause she had a sore throat, and said "you wanna come with us as well?" I said "no you can go I'm gonna study"
Also dmed me that she's going to be late instead of sending it to group chat on whatsapp like she would usually do...
Why is she doing this?
