Why did my girlfriend lay on me?

[Anonymous]

She came into the room and said “you look really depressed are you okay” I told her yeah and she said “you need to be honest with me” and she came up and laid on me and kind of locked herself into place.

I instantly felt just pain relief mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and many more ways. When my minds gone haywire she kisses my forehead.

Sometimes I lay in her lap as she pets my head and plays with my hair. She also lets me play with hers.

She’s so beautiful and sweet and intelligent and wise. I don’t feel I ever deserve her. When I say I have dated up….. I mean WAYYYY up. She always gifts me things I can’t repay especially because of my work situation.

She’s done so much for me. I try to do all I can for her too. Like cooking me food that just makes me feel so warm inside as well.

6 months and she’s been noting but the best. Nobody is warning me. Her sweetness isn’t fading away… Everyone absolutely adores her.

She’s saved my life

[NamerOfStars]

Because she saw you were suffering and wanted to ease your pain, and knew (or at least felt) that physical proximity and soothing touch would help. You kinda answered your own question.

I will, however, give you a warning: it sounds like you got yourself a damn good woman, sir. The kind you would still be kicking yourself over losing five decades later. Find out what it takes to make her feel loved and appreciated and do those things. Make HER feel that she means the world to you, too, and you've got a recipe for the kind of relationship poets write about.

[Asker]

I try. She tells me how wonderful I am all the time and how I already do so much for her

[NamerOfStars]

Good. Keep it up!

[Asker]

Great nurturer would make a wonderful mother and wife. Especially curling up in a ball and had my first good cry in a while.

I couldn’t even cry. Tears of pain sadness joy and relief I felt so weightless.

The only reason I didn’t show emotion around her was because I felt bad for making her feel bad for me.

[humanearth]

You just answered your own question without realization

Your girl is a healer, real rare in today's world.

[Asker]

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[Izzy_3991]

Marry her 💍

[Asker]

I know she would never think this…. But I feel she deserves better sometimes. But you’re right I want to so badly.

I probably should.

[Izzy_3991]

We all have doubts about ourselves from time to time. I try to always learn from my mistakes, apologise when needed and try to self-improve.

All the best 😄💍

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice and you too

[Izzy_3991]

You are more than welcome! 😃