I've known this girl for a few months, I see her often since she works at a place I often hang out at. We always spend some time talking when we see each other. I'm always greeted with the biggest smile and even when I'm at the back of the queue, she secretly fixes me what I want (without me ordering, she remembered it) and gives it to me before serving the others.
She often uploads pictures with me to her instagram story and I catch her snapping clips when I'm having fun with friends.
I asked her to come hang out after she finishes work the other night since we were going to the bar next door, I didn't actually expect her to but then she agreed to come for just one drink. However she ended up staying with us until we all went home.
We ended up talking one on one for a long time whilst the others left us alone. Got to know each other on a much more personal level due to the opportunity to talk more properly which was nice. We both talked about what kind of people we like, what we want in the future and etc. She actually got a little bit physical with playful squeezes and punches, kicking at me with her feet, which I returned straight back at her.
When it was home time, we walked and talked together until we had to split in separate directions, she kept accidentally bumping into me.
The most surprising thing is that as soon as she got home, she texted me saying thanks for the night and that she'll see me in a couple of days when she's working again. Totally out of the blue since rarely text.
My friend and her coworker says he has heard her say good things about me.
At this point I'm wanting to just dive in and ask her out properly, it'll be really awkward if she say no though.
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Dude, you can never be 100 positive but this really sounds like she's into you. So. . . you gotta take a chance if you wanna find romance!
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We've been on 3 dates since that time, we're taking things slow but it seems things are going quite well. She's old fashioned but we've been holding hands and just enjoying each other's company.
Eagerly awaiting a fourth when she's available.
This sounds like a wonderful beginning!
Are you 30 or 13? Asking someone out is not "diving in". It's wading in. Don't before s someone else beats you to it and it's too late.
Sounds like there’s a chance. Pursue it.
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