How do ugly women who are also ugly on the inside end up with good guys?

[Anonymous]

I know that sounds like a really shallow question, however there is the one girl I went to school with since we were kids and she isn't exactly pretty, she looks like a guy and a lot of people don't like her because she is known to steal and be two-faced, sleeps with her friends boyfriends, etc. She has lost jobs from it and she is not a good person inside. I've known her all my life. I normally believe everyone is beautiful in their own way, but this one girl is an exception. She is ugly inside and out, yet she manages to get involved with good guys. I myself, would say I'm not the most pretty, but I'm ok and I try to be a good person. I'm very loving and giving but I end up with narcissistic users. The way I see the world, it looks like either the guy is an ass and the woman is amazing or the woman is a bitch and the guy is a nice guy in the relationship. That is all I've seen so is that just the way it is? Someone make it make sense please.

[Rockstarrrrr]

" it looks like either the guy is an ass and the woman is amazing or the woman is a bitch and the guy is a nice guy in the relationship "... You described like 80-90 % of the couples I see lol... I guess the toxic ones go after the nice ones and the nice ones make it so much easier for them...

[Asker]

Exactly right? I don't get it!! In my experience, I have been an easy target for narcissistic dudes and it sucks because I'm too nice, I get told I need a back bone, but easier said then done because when I do that in a polite manner I get yelled at/ guys have been violent in front of me and I've been smacked so I'm too afraid to

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yes it's easier said than done... But I guess it's something you have to face and overcome sooner or later if you want different things to happen... like I said.. People can smell your insecurity... and obviously not all of them are good so they would take advantage of it and do what they do to you... And when you don't do much about it... time after time... You kinda get used to it and give up... And now you got this psychological wall between you and them and they know you're too weak to ever try jump that wall so they keep going... DON'T let that happen... When someone tries to put you down or break you or mistreat you... Stand up for yourself and give it back to them... And of course it might be tough at first... But just like the other thing... Time after time... you'll get there... and then it will reflect on them and they will take you seriously... And remember it's okay to be selfish and demanding when you need to... If you are always the giver and pleaser.. They'll get used to it and just don't see you at all anymore... And of course when you're too nice you have to be extra picky and careful about the people you welcome and deal with in your life...

[Pegases]

Women that are ugly on the inside, are usually very good at manipulating people, because they have no moral compass guiding their actions. Being pretty on the outside simply makes manipulation easier for some women.

[CoolCatMar1]

Never thought there can be both the guy and the girl in the relationship who are nice though? But she sounds awful stay away from her.

[Guy13]

They know how to respect a man or at least play the game well.

[DavidRaul]

You already said she is double faced. So she tries to act as a good girlfriend to get good guys

[Anonymous]

Ugly women are often ugly inside. Pretty girls are often good girls even when they try to be bitchy. You're better than her: the guy will recognize it.