What do girls consider "ALPHA" & why am I not seen as one even when I display SOME traits?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that many girls don't "respect" me "artificially" (superficially) for reasons I don't know

The reason I ask is because I'm slightly taller than these particular girls boyfriends, I'm in better shape, I lift more weight,

BUT I'm poor & maybe a 6/10 in the face

I dress in all black & do my own "shit" with no F'S given & even then I've notice that many of these girls look down on me from word of mouth

Im curious

[jorfan3]

What you described to me isn't exactly an attractive person, per se. It's just qualities.

Personally, my husband is a sigma, and I'm wayyy more into him than any alphas I've met.

I see alpha's as cocky, full of hot air, yet charismatic. They tend to have charm and style, which helps them get away with being an asshole.

You might lack charisma.

[Anonymous]

You're describing a functioning, mature adult male, which an alpha can be, but it's not mutually exclusive.

Alpha refers to the highest position of a social dominance hierarchy. Alphas are born leaders and naturally confident. However, in recent history, the term has been used to describe dominant, aggressive, and controlling men. Be happy that doesn't apply to you.

[Guy13]

You should let someone else write your dating app page.

[Anonymous]

I don't consider any of that. Alpha, Beta for me is all meaningless and utter nonsense.