And if they do still go to malls and buy clothes, should clothing stores just stick to selling the basic colors and styles, as patterned material/clothing doesn't enhance looks at all?
I´m not sure less because of the saving money since I think that´s good but because of the part that guys would be attracted to them anyways. The reason I say that is speaking for myself I´m most attracted to the women that catch my attention the most so if she´s wearing something that seems boring or doesn´t look good on her I forget about her pretty quickly.
The vicious circle about fashion is that at least some form of patterns catch at least my eyes because they seem different than 90% of womens other clothings and therefore special. There is a reason to look so to say. So I have issues agreeing with you.
Another issue is that I´m not really sure if it made a difference anyways since I don´t think that a guy telling a woman to stop spend money on fashion would really make a difference since many women buy clothes not only to catch guy´s attention but also to make female rivals look bad and make them jealous.
So your theory only works if all women stopped buying extra clothes with a special pattern because if there is one woman that does she will catch attention of many guys since she looks different to the rest and put the situation back at square one.
A lot of women do not have confidence in their body. Looking at clothing and the latest styles supposedly give them body confidence. Part of the problem is that they need to be sure of themselves and confident in their bodies. The close are out there today especially tights / leggings are not made for all women to wear just them as pants. They should wear them with dresses to cover their bodies they've got wrinkles where wrinkles shouldn't be. We men have a tendency to not upset our wives and girlfriends and tell them that the outfits look good on them. The sad thing is we meant have a tendency to say yeah that makes you look nice and beautiful. The women shouldn't come back and ask us does this make my butt look fat. She shouldn't have to even state that if she wasn't confident of her body. She should know when she first puts that outfit on at the store. People have a tendency to lie just to either make a buck or to make themselves feel better. The next question is does this make me look fat? Don't ask that question.
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The way I see it is, I'm interested in dating HER, NOT her wardrobe! Dressing pretty or sexy helps but, if I find myself interested in someone, it's about her, not whatever she happens to be standing in. Most often, if a girl looks gorgeous or sexy, she's only gonna MAKE ANYTHING she wears look gorgeous and sexy, too! My ex-fiance NEVER got dressed up but UI was still madly in love with her!
When I was in high school, I was madly in love with a girl named, Emily swank and, to this day, I can't remember a single thing she ever wore, and I went to school with her for 6 years (7th to 12th)!! I only remember her sweet, gorgeous face, her hair, her toothsome smile and her sweet personality! And that she would sometimes carry around an acoustic guitar and gave me a few records from her collection.
When I went to college I fell madly in love with Jennifer Marcin. I spent at least 2 years with her and can only recall two things she ever wore. And the one time in my back yard when it was the things she DIDN'T wear.
I spent 10 years with my ex-fiance, living with her at least half of those years and, other than her work uniform, all I recall of her clothes was black stretch pants and the very loose-fitting shirts she wore. I don't remember what they were as much as how they were.
I just enjoy looking like a model or a character from any movie of my choice, no matter where I go 😂😭.
I I’d like the option to choose what to wear and not have that taken from me. It’d just be a “two steps backward” sort of ordeal.
I wouldn’t be a fan.
The logic is certainly there, and you make valid points. Who knows maybe it’d do a lot better for women? Like the public uniform vs external dress-codes, for kids. If a lot of women looked quite similar maybe they’d be more encouraged to differentiate themselves more productively instead of aesthetically?
Now I’m intrigued.
I don’t understand why people always equate someone’s personal style (clothes, make up, hair, etc.) to wanting everyone to find them attractive.
Don’t any y’all dress for yourselves? 😭 I’m married but when I go out I still like to wear nice outfits, not because I’m trying to be attractive for other people, but I enjoy looking good for MYSELF. And sure getting attention because of a cute outfit is nice and all but even if nobody else likes it, I wear what I want to wear regardless if it’s ‘unattractive’ or not
The thing is though FHAs some guys do get picky about that shit. Those are mostly the guys in the fashion industry but still they do exist and even if they didn’t. No girl will ever buy something if it is just okay in her…. They make more money on your tastes then they do off of men’s tastes.
Lol... you picked the most odd patterns. They just... lol.
If in public yes they should buy clothes. But if living in a nudist colony I see why not. Also if a woman wears nothing but skimpy stuff where if they bend over her boobs fall out and wear shorts that are so short her lips show or fall out when she walks or sits, then why should they wear clothes at all.
No. I'd be interested in her and not her wardrobe. But at the same time, don't wear clothes til they disintegrate and don't buy anything new. They should just do what they want in that regard. If they love shopping and finding the "art of the deal", then do it.
I think it's true that we (men) would be attracted regardless. But women choose to dress in ways that aren't strictly for attracting men. If women feel good wearing a certain style or pattern then I say good for them.
I think no matter what a woman wears when it comes to clothing, I'm still attracted to her that's how I feel about things, I don't judge a woman on appearance it's what inside the heart is what attracts me to her.
u my ex went through college in jeans and polo shirts... lol
and half the school was still interested
Sort of, but not exactly. Guys don't care about women's clothes nearly as much as they think, but we do prefer she dress reasonably well.
Nah I like seeing a girl wearing nice and sexy clothes. It leaves more to the imagination and might turn us on more when we see you naked. Also basic clothes can still be sexy. I do like seeing a girl in skinny jeans or a nice dress
As a guy who almost exclusively wears black, yeah it is freeing to just grab whatever with no thought because it's all the same stuff anyway
Women should do what they want, but in many cases building an investment portfolio might be a better option than that seventieth pair of shoes.
You girls can wear whatever you want. It's not the clothes that attract us.
I go clothes shopping cuz I’m short , have no shoulders and I’m tubby , so nothing ever fits me properly.
Yes, I never was really impressed by designer clothes and expensive handbags.
The more money a woman spends on clothing, the less likely she is to impress me... but that's me.
I do NOT agree that women should stop clothes shopping. Unless they are trying to save their money!
My being attracted to women is irrelevant.
I disagree. I like when a girl is dressed in a certain way. Like a pretty dress or skirt.
Would it matter if we gave our opinion on this? We're men, they're not going to listen to us anyhow. 😆😆😆
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