Is this a good sign or is it whatever?

[Anonymous]

So i awhile back a met this girl in my friend group, we both liked each other but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. We still spent a lot of time together kissing, cuddling, etc. She would mostly ask me to chill. Anyways one day she said she felt a lot of emotion for me but doesn't know if i feel the same so she just wanted to be friends. I have been chasing her ever since.

I recently though she was flirting with me and i asked her about it and she said no. So i stopped putting my time and energy into pursuing her and texting her. Its been 2 months and she hasn’t reached out to me.

My friends and her were going to a concert i couldn’t make. So i had asked my buddy to get me a t shirt But he said the line was super long and no one wanted to wait in line for just my t shirt, except the girl i like. I had told my friends that it was ok and it wasn't a big deal but the girl i like waiting in this long line for me. Is this a good sign or whatever?

[SueShe]

Unless she is the kind of person that just makes out with everyone, why would she kiss and cuddle with you?

Obviously she wanted something from you yet she was not ready for a relationship. That only leaves fornication in the scenario. Seeing that her behavior is not leading to any results, she changed her mind about you and now she is satisfied to be friends with you since she did not acknowledge that she was flirting with you

Two months without reaching out to someone is a long time and I think that she in now only interested in being a acquaintance. Even friends reach out more often than every other month.

The fact that she queued for a T-shirt simply means that she probably feels that she owed you something to get even and the T-shirt was just what she needed to get even.

Don't think too much into it, there is nothing behind that gesture that would suggest that she has feelings for you.

[LilMissLeanna]

It isn't a bad sign. She seems nice. Thank her in person for getting you the shirt and offer to take her somewhere to say thank you.

[Guy13]

Do not read too much into it. She sounds like a nice girl doing a nice thing. YOu are forcing this in your head and she can probably sense it in you actions.

[Iron_Man]

Some women get so paranoid, and so insecure they shut themselves off