Introduction. Long story short. There is a girl I used to talk, nothing really special, normal sometimes flirty conversations. And I felt she might be the one for me, so I kinda came out and said her that I like her a lot.
As you can see I'm here so the things didn't go well, she rejected me "I like you, but this is one way feelings, so lets just be really good friends". Accepted that, but from that day everything changed, we barely had a conversation. Yes, at first I disappeared for like a month to handle myself. But later on she acted cold to my texts or even left me on "seen" (I'm not a maniac, it's more like"How you doing?" texts once a month). Well I understand she was not interested in me and why she should keep talking to me if she still isn't and I was "gone" immediately after rejection.
And now jealousy come in. The city we both live in is not so big, so time to time we bump into each other on our nights out. Then she acts nice to me, at least treating me like a friend (small talk and continue on our own evening) i would say, until she sees me with other girls then she just stare at me or girls I'm being with (my friends confirmed that on several occasions). Yes somewhere deep down in my hart I still like her, but ignoring thing pulling me away from giving another shot to do something what can turn things my way. But also why she is ignoring and being jealous at the same time?
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I am not sure how old you are but there is definitely a scorned, pissed off, and disappointed woman involved here. Women Test constantly and you were being tested for sure. Vanishing a month is failing the Test. If she even keeps you around to occupy a chair in the Friendzone seating area then I will be surprised. Better luck next time.
I'm in mid 20s, she is early in 20s. To be more specific we have couple of F friends in common and one of them said that she isn't interested in me right at the beginning. But she kept sending me selfies or random pics sometimes, so I tough maybe she isn't completely open with her friend. It was awkward to keep in touch after she let me know there is no romantic feelings from her side and she even cancelled plans to go to the event (2week after rejection) with friends just because she knew i will be there to.. So, i doubt it was a test... maybe I'm wrong.
Its sounds like a real mess alright.
Who cares? You won't do anything about it. Move on