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Is this a hard pass from her or did I catch her off guard?

Bballboy96

I've been crushing on this girl who is in a 12 step recovery group I'm in and over the past few weeks I thought I saw some signs she might feel the same. She's always super friendly when she sees me even though she sees me every week. We went out to a group dinner a few weeks ago and had a pretty engaging one on one conversation where she opened up about some stuff in her past and I talked about what was going on with my career. She seemed invested and asked follow-up questions. I can also feel her glancing at me sometimes and it feels like she's listening to my conversations with other people when we're near each other. Last week, she texted me at 6:30 am the morning after a meeting and told me I did a great job bringing the topic. I took that as a green light.

Yesterday, I texted her asking if she'd be at the meeting tomorrow (something I already knew to be true) but wanted to set the stage I guess. Today, same thing-I could feel her listening to my conversation with another person. A bunch of us were talking outside for a while and I was waiting till I could talk to her alone but she ended up saying she needed to leave and walked off. I waited about 30 seconds and told everyone goodbye before walking back to my car. I crossed the street and called out her name to catch up with her and she said Hey. I asked her if she was free tomorrow or Sunday to get coffee and her reaction really confused me. She was like "hmmm tomorrow or Sunday, I'm not sure why?", and I said, "There's this great coffee shop I know, would you wanna go?" and she said "um, for?" and I said "just to get coffee" and then she basically said she wasn't sure about either day but that she could get back to me. I just kind of walked off casually and said "yeah, just let know, have a good night".

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"um... maybe. for?" is what she said I think
Is this a hard pass from her or did I catch her off guard?
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