I'm a married woman. I live across from a busy parking lot. Some months back, I noticed one of the attendants was cute and that was the end of it.
From my balcony I see all the goings on. I love my balcony and spend a lot of time on it with my kids. I can see both the sunrise and sunsets so I often sit out to enjoy both. I am also a photog so I take a lot of photos.
The very attractive parking attendant occupies a space that I can't really avoid seeing him or being seen by him. One day, I was walking to the corner store and he happened to be on my side of the street. He gave me this wide-eyed glare and looked me deep in my eyes which made me uncomfortable. No smile all gaze. Since he is cute & my type, I felt shy about it. From that moment I was on my guard because I have NO INTEREST in any type of love affair. My guess he's 5-10 years younger than me.
I try to avoid looking at him to so there isn't any confusion but I have certainly stolen more than my fair share of glances so more than likely he's caught me. I stopped.
He started dressing nice. Talking & laughing loud. Making jokes. I moved to the other side of the balcony. He started finding excuses to constantly talk to his older colleague on my side & walking in front of me whenever I'm out there. Parking diagonally in front of me to show he has another nicer car.
Changing into his work clothes i. e. showing his arms off etc. This progressed to he and his friends talking while I pass.
Friends alerting him to when I leave my building and him going in the street to stare from afar. Going to the store I will feel him staring & other times I catch him. I switched to the hard ignore and he was giving me angry looks. Other days sad. I basically don't sit on my balcony now. When I do, he will suddenly go to the spot where he can see me/knows I see him. He observes my husband. The friend who would alert him has befriended my husband!!!
More stuff but not enough characters. Can't avoid him. What to do?
From my balcony I see all the goings on. I love my balcony and spend a lot of time on it with my kids. I can see both the sunrise and sunsets so I often sit out to enjoy both. I am also a photog so I take a lot of photos.
The very attractive parking attendant occupies a space that I can't really avoid seeing him or being seen by him. One day, I was walking to the corner store and he happened to be on my side of the street. He gave me this wide-eyed glare and looked me deep in my eyes which made me uncomfortable. No smile all gaze. Since he is cute & my type, I felt shy about it. From that moment I was on my guard because I have NO INTEREST in any type of love affair. My guess he's 5-10 years younger than me.
I try to avoid looking at him to so there isn't any confusion but I have certainly stolen more than my fair share of glances so more than likely he's caught me. I stopped.
He started dressing nice. Talking & laughing loud. Making jokes. I moved to the other side of the balcony. He started finding excuses to constantly talk to his older colleague on my side & walking in front of me whenever I'm out there. Parking diagonally in front of me to show he has another nicer car.
Changing into his work clothes i. e. showing his arms off etc. This progressed to he and his friends talking while I pass.
Friends alerting him to when I leave my building and him going in the street to stare from afar. Going to the store I will feel him staring & other times I catch him. I switched to the hard ignore and he was giving me angry looks. Other days sad. I basically don't sit on my balcony now. When I do, he will suddenly go to the spot where he can see me/knows I see him. He observes my husband. The friend who would alert him has befriended my husband!!!
More stuff but not enough characters. Can't avoid him. What to do?
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I couldn't fit it all above but to add. He will stare at me from the parking lot. I don't have a bad opinion of him since I see hime helping sick and needy people which is why I had developed an admiration for him. I just felt that I have made it really clear I don't want to interact with him but he pumps all these emotions at me from across the street. I don't feel its fair to give up sitting on my balcony during the week but I don't want to approach him about the weirdness either.
