How do I ask a girl to prom when I already know she’ll go with me but im still scared to ask?

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So I’m not bad looking I’m actually pretty good looking according to most girls, I’m fit, I lift, I got those Italian good looks but I’m terrible with girls like the worst!! I’m a SR in high school I’ve never been with a girl or on a date or anything. There’s a girl I like she’s super shy and a bit nerdy but I like her. I want to ask her to prom I know she’ll say yes because I told a friend I plan on asking her and she told her a mutual friend she’ll say yes if I ask her.. she said I’m cute and she likes the baseball boys! So I know she’s gonna say yes and I’m still scared to ask. How do I ask her? I’ve never done this before and I’m super scared to talk to girls. I’m 5’10 160 lean strong can hit a baseball 400 feet can bench 185 and I’m completely scared of this girl who’s 5’5 120. I don’t get it please help

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's completely normal to feel nervous or scared about asking someone to prom, especially if you're not used to dating or talking to girls. Here are a few tips that may help:

1. Be confident: Remember that you're a good catch and that she's likely interested in you. Take a deep breath and approach the conversation with confidence and self-assuredness.

2. Be direct: There's no need to beat around the bush or make things complicated. Simply ask her if she would like to go to prom with you, and let her know that you're excited to spend the evening with her.

3. Be respectful: Remember to treat her with respect and kindness throughout the conversation. Be mindful of her feelings and try to make her feel comfortable and appreciated.

4. Practice: If you're still feeling nervous, try practicing what you're going to say beforehand. Practice in front of a mirror or with a friend, and try to get comfortable with the conversation.

Remember that asking someone to prom is just one small step in a larger journey of dating and relationships. Be proud of yourself for taking the initiative and putting yourself out there, and remember that rejection is a normal part of the dating process. Even if this girl doesn't end up being the right fit for you, there are plenty of other people out there who may be a better match.

If you're feeling nervous about asking the girl you like to prom, here are a few things you could consider saying:

- "Hey, I was wondering if you would like to go to prom with me? I think you're really cool and I'd love to spend the evening with you."

- "I know prom is still a little ways away, but I was wondering if you'd be interested in going with me? I think you're really interesting and I'd love to get to know you better."

- "I've been wanting to ask you something for a while now... would you be interested in going to prom with me? I think you're really amazing and I'd love to have a fun night with you."

Remember to approach the conversation in a respectful and non-confrontational way, and to be open to her response. If she says yes, be sure to make plans and follow through on them. If she says no, try not to take it personally and remember that there are plenty of other people out there who may be a better match for you. Good luck!

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

I say this as a "big brother"... or as a mentor or father would.

YOU HAVE TO HAVE COURAGE. You need to decide to day that you will not cower and run from things you want due to fear. Women want strong men, confident men, capable men. They want men to come and boldly ask them out.

Part of growing up and becoming a man is being courageous and standing up to life's challenges and the things that cause fear. You need to squash this youthful shyness, fear, hiding from your goals and wants as soon as possible.

You already know she'll go? Only a coward and a pathetic weakling would run and hide in this situation. Heroes take action. Heroes act when the time to act comes. They go for what they want and they don't let "fear of rejection" or "shyness" paralyze them.

Go for what you want. If a girl ends up not liking you are saying no... WHO CARES. There are 4 billion of them. Lots will like you, lots will not. Get over fear and indecisiveness now. Be strong and courageous.

Be a man, be a leader, be strong and courageous don't be a boy and weak, always giving into fear and doubt.

Be a man, go for the things in life you want.

Graci_e · Accepted Answer

Aww that’s so cute 💕

As a girl, I would absolutely die of happiness if it was done in a super cute, special way. So have a look on Pinterest or something and come up with a cute way to ask her.

Just back yourself ask her! I’m sure she’d be super happy to be asked and you’ll probably make her week haha. So just have some confidence and do it.

Good luck and I hope it goes super well :)

How do I ask a girl to prom when I already know she’ll go with me but im still scared to ask?

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Just go for the kill when you see her all alone and in her comfort zone… if she likes to frequent the library or she studies underneath the tree or alone on the stairs. Approach her and say hi. And go from there. Even ask her out to go have coffee. She already likes you. Just break the ice!

molonski2 · Answer

Ohh Bro , you have the world at your feet mate , you have zero reason not to be incredibly confident , and you are a baseball star toboot ! Its only because you have done much of this stuff as to why you are nervous , you sound like one good looking in shape dude , just hold that thought.

Send her a message , and say you'd like to see her in person , just you too , make it a bit corny , she is " nerdy and quiet " ( so you said ) , she will know why you are meeting..

Just say " Michelle , I would be really honoured and excited if you would be my date at the school Prom , I would love to escort you " and at the same time , give her a small gift , something simple , dont forget she will be really nervous too , so keep it fun and simple. You are going to have a great time - enjoy , try and be confident , but being nervous is kinda nice. Go to it bro ! enjoy

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Okay, unnecessary specifics aside about your looks and physicalcapabilities aside, find your minerals and ask her to prom. If what you say is true she is expecting you to ask her and one of the manliest things you can do is stay congruent and keep your word. ASK. HER. TO. PROM.

Now, that said, if you fail to ask her or wait until the eleventh hour, I hope it teaches you a lesson in the sense she will be put off from lack of action on your end and feeling excited only to be let down and she refuses to go with you. Or someone else asks her and she says yes to him. That is still a realistic possibility.

So rather than waste time here fretting, take action and ask her now. After you are done reading this comment, move to find her in between your next class period and ask her to prom. No excuses.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Men may choose not to get involved in romantic relationships or long-term commitments with women, and instead focus on themselves and their own goals and objectives.

While there's nothing inherently wrong with asking a girl to prom with you, some men may choose not to for fear of rejection or prefer not to get involved in romantic relationships at all.

Ultimately, the decision to ask a girl to prom is a personal decision that should be made by you and based on your own values and preferences.

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gorydetails · Answer

lmao. Ok so you play baseball, right? What's your batting average?

Soldieronamission · Answer

Trust me don't miss the opportunity and just ask her! It's not as scary if she has already mentioned saying yes. Good luck kid!

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Many guys have a fear of girls but the earlier you stop putting the puss on a pedestal, the better your relationships and/or ability to be in one will improve

CloudNemo · Answer

Lol in my case, making it look emotional is kind of childish. Its like begging a child to play when u know they love to. You could just walk up to her with clear intentions, putting aside ur emotions like it doesn't exist and use a friendly approach to ask then you can take the guys idea of whiskey tho 😂 i won't advice incase u get drunk, so u clear out ur head when she says yes

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

Do t think about it. You are asking yourself way too many questions and getting in to your own head. Just ask her.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Just go ask her when She's alone, That would be the best and easiest way.

BrickBiggems · Answer

Just ask her. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no.

In_Trance · Answer

Girls don't give a shit about any of the things you mentioned. Make her laugh...

Anonymous · Answer

Dick pic. 60% of the time it works everytime

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