I’ve kind of been crushing on this girl in one of my classes. She is very gay lol like lesbian and I know this because we were in a class together last semester where she openly admitted her sexuality to the class.
If I’m honest I wasn’t attracted to her at all last semester, I just saw her as a classmate. Maybe a little over halfway in the semester she moved seats and sat diagonally behind me (next to her acquaintance). As I was walking in class one day up the aisle to my seat, I looked over and noticed she was looking at me. It was kinda awkward and her expression was open almost looked like she wanted to say something but obviously wasn’t going to. I broke the eye contact and sat down. It went on for maybe like 3-4 seconds as I was walking up until I looked away.
Fast forward this semester she changed her appearance a little and I’m very attracted to her now. She has another friend in the class who she always talks to and sits next to. The friend luckily talks to the class a lot though and is social. On the first day of class at the end of class we had to go around class and mention something and the girl waited until it got to me then left after I spoke.
I’ve seen her glance at me a few times. I’ve seen her talk to other girls in the hall and stuff but I don't know if she’s shy around me.
Today she had to sit next to me because her seat next to her friend got taken. I was excited but kind of nervous and she chose the seat next to me when there were others. Her feet were kinda near mine and I saw her fidgeting with her hands but she seemed chilled out and didn’t talk to me lol it’s annoying. I want her to talk to me especially when I’ve seen her do it for other
girls.
I am pretty and have been told I am but I’m very feminine so most people assume I’m straight when I’m bi so maybe she thinks i wouldn’t be interested I don't know lol.
Why won't she talk to me and what do I do? Lol
If I’m honest I wasn’t attracted to her at all last semester, I just saw her as a classmate. Maybe a little over halfway in the semester she moved seats and sat diagonally behind me (next to her acquaintance). As I was walking in class one day up the aisle to my seat, I looked over and noticed she was looking at me. It was kinda awkward and her expression was open almost looked like she wanted to say something but obviously wasn’t going to. I broke the eye contact and sat down. It went on for maybe like 3-4 seconds as I was walking up until I looked away.
Fast forward this semester she changed her appearance a little and I’m very attracted to her now. She has another friend in the class who she always talks to and sits next to. The friend luckily talks to the class a lot though and is social. On the first day of class at the end of class we had to go around class and mention something and the girl waited until it got to me then left after I spoke.
I’ve seen her glance at me a few times. I’ve seen her talk to other girls in the hall and stuff but I don't know if she’s shy around me.
Today she had to sit next to me because her seat next to her friend got taken. I was excited but kind of nervous and she chose the seat next to me when there were others. Her feet were kinda near mine and I saw her fidgeting with her hands but she seemed chilled out and didn’t talk to me lol it’s annoying. I want her to talk to me especially when I’ve seen her do it for other
girls.
I am pretty and have been told I am but I’m very feminine so most people assume I’m straight when I’m bi so maybe she thinks i wouldn’t be interested I don't know lol.
Why won't she talk to me and what do I do? Lol
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It's difficult to say why the girl you're interested in isn't talking to you, as everyone has their own unique reasons for their behavior. It's possible that she may be shy or unsure of how to approach you, or she may simply be focused on the class and not looking to socialize.
If you're interested in getting to know her better, it may be helpful to reach out and initiate a conversation yourself. You could start with something simple, like asking her a question about the class or making a comment about something related to the class. Remember to approach the conversation with respect and empathy, and to be open to her response.
It's important to keep in mind that everyone has their own boundaries and preferences, and that it's important to prioritize mutual respect and consent in any interaction or relationship. If she doesn't respond positively or seems uninterested, it's important to respect her boundaries and to avoid pressuring her or making her uncomfortable.
Overall, it's important to approach any interaction or relationship with empathy, respect, and an open mind, and to prioritize your own well-being and growth in the process.
Did you forget how to talk to people in person?