I’m being asked to hang with her and best friend. I’m already 90% sure she (my person of interest) is interested in me. But being asked to hang with her friend made me wonder if this was some sort of test? Do women frequent this behavior?
Nah, I will introduce them to him but it isn't a test. While I value my friends' opinions, I am ultimately going to be happy with him or not. When I started dating my husband, he was introduced to a couple of female friends of mine. It wouldn't have mattered if they didn't like him because I was sure he was the one.
I don't know why they wouldn't like him. They knew how happy he made me. However, if one of them said something negative, it would not have mattered to me very much. I would keep it in mind but proceed dating anyhow.
The thing is that I love my friends but I am not going to throw away a potential future with someone because of one meeting with friends. They did not know him as well as I did obviously. So, to form an opinion over one meetup would be a bit much.
Now, that is not to say she wants her friends opinion. She very well might. What do you have to worry about though? Unless you are a complete ass or something during this time you are fine and she will probably see her friend happy and be approving.
I introduce him to my friends, but it is never a test.
Depends. If you made it clear you wanted to take her on a date, and she asks to bring a friend, then she could just be nervous, and be using the friend as a buffer. Maybe they already had something planned, and thought it would be good to see how everyone feels about you, while she is.
I met one of my ex girlfriend's at a pizza trivia night for our first date. Her friends were there, and I was nervous at first but it actually worked in my favor. Took the pressure off of just talking to her. Make sure to talk to her friends as well, you will earn a lot of points, and it will impress if it goes well.
If you didn't make it clear it was a date, she could be using this friend to keep you from trying anything. That way it's a group hang and not a date.
Women trust their female friends' opinions, and it's common for them to ask their friends what they think about the guy they're interested in. That's ha[pened to me several times.
The only way you will know what her friends think is how she continues to act towards you.
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