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Girl stole my man?

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Back in 2021, I saw another student whom I liked. He was quite cute and I liked him.

He slowly began talking to us but it took a while. i tried to be friendly and a bit flirty but he said he was seeing someone (this was not true as I later found out and I'm not sure why he said that ).

I didn't give up though and kept talking to him.

Fast forward 10 months later, I found out that they had been talking already and there was something going on. He tried to make her jealous by saying how I looked good in front of her but that time I didn't think he was trying to make her jealous.

I felt he finally started to like me for my beauty and since white guys like Asian girls so I started grasping any opportunity to talk to him. If I would see him sitting alone, I would go and sit with him and start talking.

The same day I invited him for drinks with Mt female friends and he agreed and I kept talking to him. I also took his number. However, at the club he was not showing any romantic interest and within an hour, he received some texts from her which stressed him out and he left.

Finally, I saw them together and he left to go with her ( he was having lunch with us) as they had some issues and he stayed with her for a few hours until he came back. By this time. I finally understood there was something happening and my friends all said they had seen them together multiple times and quite frequently.

I had also asked him out for lunch and dinner 1 on 1 but he had declined saying he can't make it. The 2nd time I asked, he said he's meeting the girl he's seeing.

I still spoke to him in person and once as I was walking away, he asked me if I knew of the renovations that would take place in the study room. We spoke about it and I felt I had another chance so I quickly asked him if he would like to go for lunch with me and my 2 friends ( 1 guy friend who he's friends with) but he denied saying he has plans.

How can I get rid of her and get him?

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. He was quite cute and I liked him. However, he always kept to himself and never really spoke to me or my friends. We are chinese so all chinese students knew each other. I liked him so I used to watch the things he did and it was kind of our gossip to discuss him.

He slowly began talking to us but it took a while. i tried to be friendly and a bit flirty but he said he was seeing someone (
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I didn't give up though and kept talking to him. However, one of my good friends told me that another student she knew (not chinese) was interested in him and that girl that he used to stare at her. I quickly told my friend to tell her that he's off limits as he's seeing someone. My friend told her and I forgot about it thinking he barely talks to anyone much so he won't talk to her either since she's not even a PhD student.
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