It is extremely weird question. During our last weekend with my ex (yeah we broke up last year) she looks so awesome. She just cut her hair few days earlier and she looked more sexy. She was wearing my grey t-shirt which I always wanted her to do it. BUT when she was lying in bed she did something else, which is (I don’t know why) is both cute and sexy for me. She just start subtly flexing her biceps/triceps and checking her arms. I have NEVER told her to do it, but in my mind I always wanted her do it. Did I just "manifest" her doing it or maybe did she just start working out/going to the gym at that time or planned to do it? Which is weird because she had nothing in common with sports/athletic and I still don’t think she does anything connected to working out. The funny thing I always though it would be cool seeing her with short hair, my grey t-shirt and flexing her biceps. Unfortunetly she did during our last weekend and few days later she broke up with me.
Weird question, but I want to "decode" my ex's behaviour?
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i dont see what is there to decode, even if you "manifested" that she broke up. It makes no sense to think about it, if you love her you should thnk about getting her back
It's not what I ask for. I wanted to know what that means she suddenly started to subtly flexing his biceps/triceps and checking her arms. She have never done it. Does it mean she started going to the gym or consider starting working out? She was NOT sporty. What do you think?
its possible, if you were sporty, maybe you influenced it
I wasn't. However I am afraid she probably can get in touch with ex (the one she left for me) and I suspect she had good contact with him after our break up (and also at the end of our relationship). He was/is very sporty. Do you he could influenced her to get some muscles?
anyone could, this is too much speculation to know anything as fact
Ok, can you tell from woman's perspective, if you (or any woman) suddenly checks/flexs his arms/muscles - does it mean you/she consider getting muscles/working out?
no, for me personally, i could just be joking, i have some muscles but im like skinny so its fun to joke personally. I am sporty tho, fit in shape, but not like i have some big muscles
but tell me what is exactly bothering you? maybe i can help with that
But she did it in private, she didn't know I saw this. She checks her arms for real. So?
She was everything I wanted. And on the top of that there is a chance she become sporty at the end of our relationship. She was small, shorty, skinny girl who suddnely started to checking his biceps which make her even more attractive in my eyes. She also cut her hair at the end of our relationship which make her even more sexy. Damn..
Is she much more attractive than me? :D
https://ibb.co/MphJbd8Are
Sorry I wasn't online, couldnt see your pic now. But sounds like you still care about her and I would suggest trying to then get back with her, if she feels the same it would be great, if not you will be able to properly move on.
It's us
https://ibb.co/vVJMmbS
yeah she is definitely cute, but you are not bad looking, and women have different tastes so. Point is as i sad if you love her try work it out.
Ok, you suggested she is much better looking than me? I need honest feedback
I would say she is better looking, but im not saying extremely
I mean I am not ugly for here? Would you be suprised if you saw us together as a couple?
Ok, whateve. Can I show my body muscles progress video. I would be thankul for feedback!
no, i dont think you are ugly at all and i would not be suprised to see you as couple. You may send me video for feedback. Sorry im working so im replaying when i can
https://files.fm/f/4gauupg43 - here my biceps/forearms/triceps
https://files.fm/f/xg8gunm44 - here my legs/calves/butt
https://files.fm/f/fy7m4zfrk - here my chest/shoulders
You are a person who works out, so please give me DETAILED and HONEST review about every muscles/body part I posted there
sorry couldnt see those
also i do work out but im not expert when it comes to muscles at all, i just enjoy sports
https://streamable.com/fah351 - it's my biceps/forearms/triceps
https://streamable.com/pl7qc0 - it's my legs/calves/ass
https://streamable.com/pl7qc0 - it's chest/shoulders
Give me HONEST AND DETAILED review/feedback.
Also what do you think about my grey t-shirt and sweatpants?
you look normal, better defined arms than chest but women dont generaly care about muscles as much as men do. your clothes are normal, nothing wrong with them. This is just my opinion, opinion of one woman. I don't know what are your insecurities but there is nothing wrong with you. You also need to accept ysf and what you got and find someone to love you for who you are. Looks fade with age and whats inside matters.
I just want you to rate my muscles, not repeating that looks doesn't matter
I gave you my opinion, Im not expert on muscles
Do you think getting more muscles would beneficial for me and ex when we will come back together?
Can I go out public wearing this grey t-shirt and black polyester sweatpants?
maybe, but you said she doesn't care about muscles that much so I don't know. It would be beneficial that you work on whatever made you break up in the first place and you putting clear effort to get her back
yes