Why is it some women will ask "How are you still single"?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, a piece of advice. That question comes across as a back handed compliment. We get it, you see attractive qualities in us, But on that same token when we turn it on you, and we ask you if you're interested, you shoot us down, it becomes a passive aggressive insult.

No matter how well intentioned you are, Just dont ask that question.. Most men dont want to answer, Especially when we see you going after some low value man with high charisma.. You know the type.. He is broke, criminal, abusive and you feel the need to fix him. Unless you're going to be taking us out on a date, Just dont ask that one.

The lady in this video about 5:03 minutes in explains it better.

Oh and before some idiot calls me an incel, im not, im married quite happily i might add, and if you choose to insult me like that i will remove your comments.

[Anonymous]

I think most women ask the question less for the answer and more just to see HOW he'll answer. Women do this all the time. She knows the answer already (or at least thinks she does). But she'll ask and then decide whether she believes you answered honestly. 😆

[Asker]

Yeah it's a stupid mind game to be honest.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I'd probably give a smart Alec response like "just lucky I guess". You could take that many ways. And frankly since I didn't like the question, it's fine to me however she takes it.

[Asker]

You and me both my friend. Most men don't like the question, it seems loaded.

[MementoMori777]

They just tell you so they look like they aren't chasing crap I guess 😂

I always hit them with the same response tho, "too many whores I guess" if they include themselves in that, that is no longer my problem lol

[inhua]

actions speak louder than words

talk is cheap. no matter how many times she says you're attractive, if she ain't willing to rip your clothes off and suck your dick, it's all a lie and virtue signaling

[Billlewis]

I think it's because they're surprised that a guy who is willing to be as sweet and accommodating as you are should have a girlfriend by now.

[DarkWinterNights]

I think it’s just a meaningless platitude. A lot of women get the same question from their families.

[Unit1]

Not applicable to me.

[Anonymous]

I am glad you said some.