I'm friends with these 2 girls but they don't seem to know that i'm friends with them both?

[Anonymous]

we kind of all live in the same area so i'm meet both of them through there work and friends with them there , also seen them at bars here but they've never been at the same bar together.

i tried talking to the one last summer about the other girl and how i had meet her but she didn't seem to like get what i was saying or though i had meet another girl at that restaurant and not the one she was friends with.

so not entirely sure if they know that i'm friends with the other girl too , not entirely sure what will happen when i eventually see them both at the same time ,

[Anonymous]

Nothing will happen because it’s not a big deal. It’s very common for people to have the same friends without knowing, but even once they find out, it just doesn’t matter to much. It’s more passive, like ‘oh that’s cool’ than anything.

[Asker]

but there a lot younger than me so you wouldn't assume that i'd know both of them through normal means due to the age diff. so to be friends with the other girl isn't necessary common but i told her i had meet people who worked at that restaurant so maybe its not a total surprise

[Opinion Owner]

Age doesn’t matter once you’re an adult. If you’re in a smaller town and visit the same places you are bound to run in the same circles. For example, I personally grew up in a small town and went to the same two bars a few times a week in my 20s. They did karaoke at both, and I made friends with people of all ages at both bars, I’d sing with a man who was in his 50s when I just turned 22. We aren’t thinking about age gap friends, just enjoying your time. So it doesn’t matter the way you tell yourself it does.

[In_Trance]

that's some friendship

[Asker]

actually i get along with them both really well , they both work at different restaurants and i talked to both of them this weekend at separate times/days