What advice do u have for insecurities?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

They will always come and go when you're doing something and you start to feel that creep up on you you have to just take a step back and say wait a minute the only reason why you feel that in that moment is because you're not sure of yourself you have never experienced it before or if you have experienced it before it didn't turn out the way you wanted it to

Look at it like this everything that you know in life right now started with insecurities because you were not sure just like when you first started to learn how to walk you would take a couple steps fall down take a couple steps fall down insecurity kind of creeped into your life that you feed it because Time After Time Fall After Fall step after step you got into it you started to understand how to keep your balance and go for it so if you understand something better less likely you will have that insecurity

I have a friend that wanted to fix his car he asked me if I would watch him or help him I said sure but everything he was doing the moment he had to start doing it his mind was so boggled with am I doing it right am I loosening the bolt or my tightening the bolt he didn't want to look like a fool so he became so insecure about it everything he did was wrong and it was kind of funny I said dude just take it on don't worry about it just take it on understand it and take it on it took him awhile to understand what I was saying but finally he got into it and everything turned out fine in order to understand something you have to experience it that's with everything but don't let it take over your whole body don't let it take over your whole mind or your thoughts take it on no matter what it is that's what life is all about there's no such thing as failure you cannot have success without failure without falling down get up and go for it and smile

LB0412 · Accepted Answer

Most people will tell you to get over it, you simply can't. There is no getting over what you struggle to face everyday, that is why it is called a battle. For the people who tell you to get over it, ignore them.

My advice to move past this you need to come to terms and accept you, learn to love yourself, it takes months and maybe even years it's not a simple fix overnight. I found a therapy for mine and it's the best thing I've ever done. It works having someone to pick apart what you can't understand. Sometimes, what I do and what works for me is to take a step back and look at things from a different perspective, don't act upon your insecurities. Your doing just great and you'll get there. I don't know your name but chin up, smile and if you can't smile rn here's a hug 🤗 because sometimes I think people need it.

AaronH03 · Accepted Answer

I would say find the things about yourself that you are secure with or confident in. Then, I know it’s corny but write little inspirational notes on your mirror, uplifting messages even something like “you’re beautiful”, these simple things, done daily, and you seeing them each morning can, in my experience, work wonders for your confidence

Justmeagain1 · Accepted Answer

You need to remember that there is only one of you. No one - not even a twin is the same as you exactly. Don’t measure your self worth based on someone else’s capacity to see your potential.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Power over them. I do every single day! I still get anxiety about many things, but I just say fuck it and steamroll insecurity. It's not easy and I did better at confidence when I was younger though. Anyway believe in yourself and a whole different world will open up for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Get over it. I'm not being mean but you need to accept that most people do not care. They're dealing with thier own insecurities. Good luck!

jshm2 · Answer

Put your big girl panties on, and jog on. It's bad enough you being incompetent. Don't add insecurities to the mix

abc3643 · Answer

Get experience. Experience creates security because it creates confidence as it irradicates the fear (and insecurity) due to ignorance.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Insecurities are cancer. Look at the insecure people on here and how hard they make life for themselves. Only you can fix it.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Insecurities only form if you care about what people think, why do you care about the crap other people's pink mushes come up with

Willlovewinintheend · Answer

The comfort zone denies you success. Push through those insecurities and conquer them. I have done it time and time again.

SphynxUK · Answer

Sounds like you need therapy to learn your self worth.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

Find out the root cause. Be patient with yourself as you heal.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Focus more on what you are secure about and over time isolate one insecurity or fear to challenge and overcome

Luopio27 · Answer

Everyone has had their moments of insecurity. You are not alone.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Just find a man who likes you. And let him love you.

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Mind over matter you dont mind and they don't matter

Anonymous · Answer

Don't be insecure

itsalyssaagain · Answer

We are all insecure.

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