Why are women so intimidated by men that have sexual options?

[Vegasrunner]

If a man works hard to build himself up shouldn't he be able to enjoy his success?

[Anemone978]

That is fine to reap the benefits of your success but don't think women are intimidated just because they don't want you when they find out you are a hoe 🤣
A smart women will never take a man not willing to give them the love and care they deserve. And if you ain't settled down at 45 who really would want you anyways? You think money can buy you a quality women when you are not quality yourself? (And no just cuz you have lots of money doesn't make you a quality person, so don't delude yourself)

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 Sounds like you're misinterpreting the question there's no mention at all about women not wanting anyone, women would give their left arm to "settle down" w/ a successful man, there's simply nothing in it for a HV man to settle for one woman.

[Anemone978]

This coming from a guy.. I sure wouldn't..
But then how are you getting that women are intimidated? Intimidated how and why?

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 You're making the mistake of believing that your individual preference is reflective of the world in general. The fact that u may not do something isn't relevant to the original question.

[Anemone978]

Okay.. but then how are you getting that women are intimidated? Intimidated how and why?

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 The how is found in the female responses to this question. Take yours for example you jumped to an emotional charged conclusion filled w/ ad hominem attacks directed at both men and women. (Successful men are hoes and the women that want them are dumb) A reasonable conclusion is that that attack is rooted in intimidation, the why is the question that was posed to the audience.

[_SillyShoes_]

This.
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[Anemone978]

LMAO My answer is based on what I see and evaluate it is not emotionally charged.. It is just how I rate people by my standards which are obviously different to yours. Promiscuous people are by definition hoes.. so I am not wrong in my judgment. And people who put up with things when they deserve better, yes I would assume they are dumb. I am not intimidated to be intimidated I would have to have some sort of fear or value in a supposed HV man, which I do not so assume what you will about me..

[cth2188]

Thanks! At 45 why isn't he chosen already what's going on here? These dudes swear up and down their prize !

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 If you base your answers only on your perspective you are by definition limited. Namecalling is a standard example of emotion and A hoe is a derogatory term for a permiscuios women and accusing someone of being "dumb" becausethey make a decision that u can't understand also highlights emotion. "Better" is subjective and the reality is at a certain level women simply can't get better as HV men are scarce. Also reality contradicts your beliefs an out of shape, broke man, w/ no game does not attract as many women as a fit, wealthy man w/ lots of experience w/ females. Therefore he is considered of lessor value.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 That's an example of you believing men and women have equal goals. You need to find a partner because society judges single women. A 45 yro man assuming he's done the work does the chosing hence the original question.

[Anemone978]

What does it matter if my perspective is limited? You wanted answers so I gave you one.. I call everyone derogatory names, it doesn't mean anything.. its just a fun past time for me.
Can you explain to me how a supposed HVM that won't give you the time, love and care that another guy will give you without cheating and possibly giving you STD's is the "better" option... but yes like you said it is subjective..
Can you define what you think a High value man is, because what you describe is not what I would call high value. Who said an out of shape man with no game is what women want? Can you send me a pic in PM I'd like to see if you are actually fit LOL

[Tomisworthless]

When you’re finally attractive and desirable to a variety and wide range of women then woman want you to settle with just one, while all their lives they had the advantage of selection of highest value and could hoe all they wanted while you were coming up years in the making.

Find a women who is willing to stay faithful to you as you go and conquer other woman’s wombs

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 It simply makes you limited. I simply posed an open ended question on a public forum I was never seeking yours specifically u provided it presumably because the question triggered you. Carry yourself how you like, if you're surrounded by people that allow you to disrespect them then it shows the quality if people your around.
1) I can't explain someone else's situation, w/out having full context. Why have HV men been unwilling to the attention you seek? Better is subjective so I would say you should look at the historical evidence to find your answer. Kobe Bryant famously was caught cheating on his wife, even admitting it in a press conference, yet she never left amd went on to have 3 more kids w/ him after that. Current NBA player Zion Williomson is expecting a new child w/ his girlfriend while having a heartbroken pornstar ranting about their sex life of Twitter. The question u should be asking is if what you're saying is true why do these women stay w/ this men. (Because of my experience w/ women I realize you're probably unable to answer that question w/out making derogatory remarks about the women)
2) A HV man is a man that is respected as a HV man by other men of value.
3) No one said women want out of shape men w/ no game.
4) TY for your request, but I no I will not be sending you a photo as that is an extremely creepy request. If you truly want an autograph or photo please LMK how much your willing to pay, and I will have my team review it.

[Anemone978]

The question didn't trigger me, I just don't like you so I figured I would come shoot the shit and waste your time...
1) The answer is they like money and what the men can do for them.. again you have to be interested in materialistic things to find unfaithful men worth while and you must not be able to get those things on your own. I don't have to write derogatory remarks because we already know what I think of those women)
2) LOL okay..
3) ...
4) I just wanted to see what a fake self involved guy who always posts that he is a HV male on an absolutely shit platform actually looks like lol

[Vegasrunner]

@Tomisworthless Very True

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 You're not wasting my time at all, in fact you're helping tremendously as the data in info I collect from you I get to monetize.
1) You're making my point. That's exactly why men work to create value in themselves. Reality is most women are interested in material things, perhaps u could get them on your own as a women however women are not valued on that. If the platform is "shit" why do you spend your time on it?

[Anemone978]

That's cool.. but your evaluations of my motivations and personality are completely wrong about me.. So not sure what you are collecting besides misinformation and placing it as facts lol
1) Yeah this I know... they crave bullshit things but if they just tried in life to actually get a talent they could get it for themselves. But as we see they rather be "dumb" and get with a man who will disrespect them to the public to get these things. Who cares if women are valued by what they make or not we already know women are mainly valued at their looks.. my point is why put up with shitty men for money if you could make your own and get a better man who loves you truly. They don't because essentially they either can't do it or are too lazy so they will settle for a rich dude who will constantly embarrass them and disrespect them in the public view.
As for this shitty site I just come here to have fun and put people down, it isn't a quality place I respect or anything. I respect a few men on here but for the most part I look down on the vast majority especially women and their constant photo shoots or I mean "questions" and need for validation lol So I wouldn't expect to see a HVM on here I would assume he would be more busy and actually be doing something more valuable with his time not being here pretending he is here collecting "valuable" research data on the female brain.

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 Every woman says what you're saying. The reason why I know this is become I've been w/tons of women. It's ez ro monetize what you're saying because there is a huge market of young men confused by women, predicting and then allowing u to validate their nature is lucrative. The fact that u don't understand it is irrelevant.
1) You've answered your own question. Society and evidence disagrees w/ what you think is a "better" man. Making money won't help a women get a "better" man Oprah is a billionaire however isn't considered attractive to men because men don't care about a woman's $$$. Also a woman doesn't "settle" for a successful man she has to earn him and then work to keep him. Your claim that they are "embarrassed" in public is obviously false. If it were true Vanessa Bryant wouldn't have over 15m + followers, w/ the majority being woman all wishing they could have her life.
2) That's your own issue, we all get 24 hours if you think yours is best spent insulting random people then that says more about your own personal I securities. Based on what you've told me you've never retained a HVM so u don't really know how we spend our time. Just because you're unable to benifit doesn't mean others aren't.

[Enaya]

I said women can pull so many more men than men can pull women that it is not a special value to us. I have been a woman among women from 30+ years and that’s where that opinion comes from, my sample size to form this opinion is statistically significant and therefore generalizable.

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya If all women can do it then by definition it does not make you valuable. Very few women can retain a HV man, those that can are deemed valuable.

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya Your sample size is statistically insignificant. Simply being alive doesn't make your opinion significant. I have slept w/ almost 300 women, have multiple BA's including one in gender studies and have spoken w/ thousands of women age 18-32 when I worked as a VIP host in Vegas. Your numbers pale in comparison to mine so how would your opinion be significant?

[Anemone978]

If you are what you say you are what are your socials mate? Or you don't exist lol
I do have a HVM so you are wrong again, he makes the money, I stay at home and do what I want. And no he doesn't cheat because he only wants me. The only guys I couldn't get were ones who weren't making the money or living the life they wanted to (so broke). And had I acted pathetic and against my own morals I could of got them too but it truly wasn't worth it. So yeah I know what actual HVM do I live with one bro..

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 TY for you for the compliment, however I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable providing that information to someone like yourself. I'm glad that u respect your man, however the definition of a HV man is someone that is seen as HV by other men of value. Woman are going to make the claim that the man is HV simply because he chooses them which is not accurate. Also the fact that "broke" guys were rejecting you makes it unlikely that you've actually been able to retain a HVM.

[Anemone978]

Where did I compliment you? I asked for proof which you can't provide which makes me doubt you even more so, if you were a public figure or someone that is HV it shouldn't matter to share that info.
No he is high value because he only works 3 days a week, he owns his house and car and can provide for the whole family and we take regular vacations..
They were just broke fuck boys not ready to settle down and like I said if I kept playing the game I could of gotten them but they weren't worth the effort, I have way too much pride to go along with the wants of losers or sluts. So assume what you will.. you proved to be no one important anyways if you can't provide facts of your skills or business.

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 You're requesting "proof" because you recognize the value in the traits I have mentioned. Whether you "doubt" something is unfortunate for you, but has no significance to me as I don't respect or value your opinion and I understand how the female brain works. Your guy may be "HV" to you however the definition of a high value man is that he is respected by other MEN of value. Reason being no woman is going to admit that her man is low value while she's dating him. Ironically many women have no issue describing that same man as low value once she is done dating him. If they're "broke" there's not much of a game to play, the fact that those are the level of men that had sexual access to you only says something about your lack of value. There's nothing to "assume" as your words are literally validating my point. TY for sharing.

[Anemone978]

No I want proof because you are "acting big" and most likely lying about your accomplishments.. which you fail to do. You obviously do care because you keep coming back to prove your point.. that's nice that is what you think but that actually isn't, stop trying to be Andrew Tate lol...
No they literally were broke but considering I don't value money I value the person, yeah they were able to come around me. And FYI I only had sexual contact with 2 guys. So I love how you look down on me but you are the one with high body count and going by your personality no redeeming qualities besides your "imaginary money". But keep trying to spin what I say to fit your bullshit assumptions..

[Vegasrunner]

@anemone978 You wanting "proof" provides nothing for me and only validates how important building yourself up as a man is to females. I not sure what point you're referring to as my original statement was a question. The bigger question is why are you attracting "broke" men. I'm not sure if it's "high" but yes I have banged over 200 × women which for a man only raises his status. A high body count for a female only lowers theirs.

[Alli39]

I mean this implies an inherent connection between a man's career, finances, achievements, and the morality of him having multiple partners in a short period of time, which isn't actually a thing.

If you believe that it's ok for people to sleep around then it doesn't matter how successful any particular person is in life. If you don't believe people should sleep around, then it's not ok regardless of success (and to say otherwise would be compromising your morals). It's not like the bar changes just because a person has become rich or got a promotion at his job. That applies to both/any gender.

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 There's an obvious connection between those things and a man's ability to have multiple partners, that's why successful men are known to have a lot of women.

[Alli39]

I mean, for a moral perspective there really isn't, but if you don't like that answer here's a different one. Either a) the specific girl (s) you're talking about has self-esteem issues that make her feel emotionally threatened by the fact that her man is attractive to other people or b) they're aren't, they just don't like dude who think that being rich or handsome or whatever entitles them to sleeping around or being unfaithful (aka being arrogant, entitled, etc). It's not that we're necessarily intimidated so much as annoyed. It's not attractive to have that kind of attitude, because like I said, the morality of having multiple partners, etc is not a function of success. Just because some dudes (and some women) do it, doesn't make it ok (if you believe that it's not ok, if you don't then I doubt you care). They can just get away with it more easily.

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 That's an interesting response. Self esteem is a big issue for women so I can understand that. Your logic would hold more validity if it didn't contridict reality. If what you're saying is true why has every successful man since the beginning of time had multiple women?

[Alli39]

Self-esteem is a big issue for people in general. That's not gendered. Neither is sleeping around. Successful/attractive women are able to have the same behaviors there's just way less societal pressure on men to avoid such behaviors. In many places there's a sort of culture that encourages men to seek multiple partners, just like women are encouraged to do the opposite.

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 Self esteem is a much bigger for females that why they make up 99.9% of the makeup industry. That's why there are filters on phones and a huge Marge for breast implants and BBL's. A women's success is irrelevant to a man, her attractiveness is what's important.

[Alli39]

Nah, I've talked with way more of my male friends than my female friends about self-esteem issues so I really don't believe that. The majority of cosmetic changes are for women because historically speaking a women was expected to physically appeal to a man (to get a husband) and to adjust her appearance with that in mind. In the modern world, this just translates into it being way more socially acceptable for women to use make-up than men. But we know this isn't inherent to human nature because cosmetics, specially skincare, for men is a growing market in Korea as idol-oriented pop culture shifts cultural beauty standards in the region.

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 Your personal experience doesn't reflect society as a whole. Also the fact that these are platonic male friends skews your belief because your asking guys w/ low self esteem about self esteem. That only validates my argument, if women had self esteem they wouldn't need to spend money on a product designed to enhance their beauty, they do this because they realize that their value is directly tied to their looks. Men make up less than 0.001% of all makeup customers so what you're saying is completely untrue.

[Alli39]

I mean neither does yours. And the use of make-up is a) is not explicitly reflective of self-esteem issues (I wear it for fun/to match my clothes and because I enjoy the act of putting it on and know many people who do the same) and b) my point was that cultural beauty standards influence who uses cosmetics in what context.

Also I don't see how speaking to someone I'm platonically involved with is an indicator that they must have low self-esteem. I was trying to point out that men are absolutely not exempt from having self-esteem issues by any means.

Basically, I disagree with your premise that women have significant worse self-esteem than men. Different issues? Yes. More issues? No. And the differences that do exist are rooted more strongly in cultural phenomena (like the historical assumption that a women's value lies only in her beauty as opposed to any other positive trait) than actual biological differences.

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 You would have to show me where my personal experience is part of this dialog for that to be a relevant statement. Ironically you then follow by providing another example of your personal experience. Your B is not relevant, as the subject was who the consumer was not why. The reality is women are the consumer of a product designed to enhance one's physical appearance for the better. Outside of some sort of family connection a adult man is only a platonic friend w/ women because he isn't confident enough to face the possibility of being rejected by one he likes. That's literally why the "friend zone" is a thing. You're also creating a completely different argument "exempt" was never a condition of this conversation. My statement was "Self esteem is a much bigger issue for females" Because you can't refute that you've invented a statement about men not being exempt and are attempting you use one personal relationship to validate a statement only u created. You're more than welcome to disagree, however the fact that I'm able to provide 3 real life examples while you only have one personal conversation w/ a friend validates my point. You don't like the fact that women have significantly lower self esteem, so you're seeking to find something to rationalize your POV as opposed to accepting the empirical data in front of you.

[Alli39]

Ok let's break this down:
1. Men adjust their physical appearance differently right? When a man feel insecure about his body he goes to the gym, goes on a diet, gets a haircut etc. It's not like dudes don't get insecure about their appearances, they just have different insecurities that the handle differently and tend to get less societal pressure to manage to the same extent as a woman. Men's appearances get commented on well less often (positively or negatively) than women's. The use of make-up simply isn't the singular indicator of self-esteem issues.
2. You realize not all my male friends are single guys sitting there moping because they can't get together with me, right? Like good gods. Way to stereotype.
3. You really haven't proved to me that women do have significantly lower self-esteem, simply that they wear more make-up. And if we return to the original topic, you'll notice that self-esteem issues were not the only reason women might not like when a guy sits there pointing out how many "sexual options" he has. Arrogance on the part of the man probably plays a much bigger role, especially for women who are looking for more than sex. This whole conversation seems to be grounded in the assumption that all women are intimidated by a man being able to/having an inclination to sleep around and that's simply not the case by a long shot.

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 TY for this. Now I understand your confusion.
1) No. Men enhance, maintain, etc the body they were given. Women adjust their bodies over 90% of all cosmetic surgies in 1st world countries our performed on women. Most men realize that their appearance is only a small component of their attraction ability whereas appearance is 100% of a woman's
2) There's no way I can know anything more about your male friends than what you have shared. If you would like to share their contact info w/ me so I can reach out to them on my own, that's fine but I'm judging them based on what you told me. And what you have shared is that you speak to males that you are not sexually involved w/ or related to by blood about self esteem issues. That information right there let's me know the archetype of man you're holding this discussion w.
3) You're ignorance is your own issue. If providing multiple examples isn't enough to educate you, regarding a POV that you have failed to provide any tangible examples on, only means that you are closed minded. The original topic was why are women intimidated by men that have option, you' ve attempted to change it into a topic rather makes you feel more comfortable. There's no mention anywhere about "pointing out" your sexual options that's another mde up statement you made to distract from the fact you don't have a sound argument. You have made this "assumption" however you are unable to provide anyplace in the dialog where I mentioned "all" meaning you're essentially debating w/ yourself

[Alli39]

1) The whole point of make-up (in most cases, but not all) and cosmetic surgeries is to enhance physical features, it's just a different means since men and women are acting on different expectations. (And dude, you may only be attracted to women's appearances, but that's not true for the entire male population so chill)
2) I've shared that I speak to close friends abut their personal experiences. I see no issue with this statement or the evidence that these conversations provide.
3) You made the assumption that women are intimidated in the first place, which isn't objective fact. Faulty questions lead to faulty responses.
But I think I've said enough here, so I bid you adieu 👍

[Vegasrunner]

@Alli39 Now I see why you're confused. 1) That's false makeup is literally used to change one's appearance hence the reason for using makeup artist for Hollywood films.
2) Yes and based off what you shared those males fit the stereotype of beta males. Men that are successful w/ women have no need to keep a woman around as a platonic friend, unless that woman helps them attract more women.
3) I posed a question, then provided evidence to validate that question. The fact that you've ignored the evidence only validates my point. It's one thing if you could provide evidence of your own however you decided to ignore them and use your feelings as the metric.
You said some things, just nothing of substance, so I agree that u probably save face by not attempting to debate w/ someone like me.

[DextroShade]

Women only like equality when it benefits them. When they are in their prime they have no problem being a hoe, getting passed around by multiple dudes, keeping good guys in the friend-zone, and taking advantage of all the free stuff that simps offer them like dinners, vacations, etc. But when a man busts his ass to get to the point where he can have options, these same women will shame him for exercising them. Let's be real here: unless you gave your virginity to that man you cannot demand sexual exclusivity from him especially if he's rich or she is past her prime.

[cth2188]

I've been celibate most of my life 🙃.. these Kevin Samuels teachings will have you men alone in the future or Andrew Tate

[DextroShade]

@cth2188 I am not alone, I have a wife. After a certain age a woman's virginity goes from being an asset to something that begs the question "What the hell is wrong with her to have not found a man yet?" Regardless, being alone is much bigger problem for women than it is for men because you aren't designed to survive on your own like men are.

[cth2188]

I've chosen to remain and stay single after my divorce with my ex husband who caused infidelity in our marriage. I have no desire to drak with another man in this life time and I'm 34. I'm settled in my life / career- so when ask me I tell them I'm single by choice and not interested in dating! I will be part of the women who are the 45% of single & childless women.

[cth2188]

Yes women like me can survive alone I've been doing it 11 years - furthermore I refuse to deal with low quality tier men such as what's out here.

[cth2188]

Idc what men do from here as I'm not participating in how dating is.

[DextroShade]

@cth2188 statistically women like your self are the most miserable category of human being. As for surviving on your own, are you receiving alimony from your ex husband?

[cth2188]

Actually no statics show that single and child free women are the happiest - I have friends and travel a man doesn't define my happiness I do ! A man is an add on not a must ! I'm content and at peace single- it's married women/ men unhappy ! I can do what I want when I feel like it and owe no one N A D A

[cth2188]

@DextroShade I own a business and willbe traveling my children are preteens and I will buying my own in a few months - I'm content in my current home ! The kids should look forward to the islands 🏝 bext year 😀

[cth2188]

I have no worries about cheating, lies, abuse, disrespect, etc.. slaving , cooking, being a maid for a man or etc ! After my dicircs I'm free !

[cth2188]

I own a holistic business and my ex alimony doesn't touch my income! 🙃🙃🙃🙃🤌👏 I have 2 degrees and do self-publishing writing on the side ! 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

[cth2188]

Divorce

[DextroShade]

@cth2188 who are you trying to convince here: you or me?

[cth2188]

Noone you mentioned about alimony I see you men mention bring this up with women say they are single S T O P

[inhua]

men with lots of options are difficult to tie down and women see it as a challenge to get that man to choose them over all the women

for some reason they expect men to play the exact same game and that men should keep fighting for a woman with a high body count or lots of sexual options without realizing that men are actually more fair and willing to give other women a chance whereas it's the same small group of attractive men being allowed to pass all the women around

[Dysney1023]

That’s like a man living in his ego. Like if I know he can pull a lot of women it’s a bit off putting. Cuz it’s like a brag. But of something that’s more of a turn off. Would you want a woman who can pull a lot of men? Everyone wants to feel special. That’s all I think.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Any women can pull a lot of men so that's not really a good indication of her value.

[Dysney1023]

Neither is it for a man though. Value doesn’t equate to the amount of people you can land.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Actually value is ties to scarcity. Since very few men are able to attract multiple women, the ones that can are deemed more valuable. The more value a man has the more he's able to attract women.

[Dysney1023]

I don't know I can only speak for myself but most women value trust over scarcity.

[Dysney1023]

Also a woman looks for someone she can trust. Not a guy who can land a bunch of women. That’s not even a factor. And if a guy leads with that it is a major turn off. Women prefer humble confidence.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 The value is tied to the scarcity. They are the same thing.

[Dysney1023]

What you’re saying is value=scarcity? Cuz what I’m saying is value=trust

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 It's not what "I'm saying" An inarguable fact is that scarcity is tied to value. That's literally the reason gold and other precious metals are so valuable. Trust may be a value that you personally hold, however it does not mean it is "valuable" like most women you're making the mistake of thinking your personal values represent societal values as a whole. Most men aren't successful, making those that are scarce, because we are scarces we are more valuable in the dating market.

[Dysney1023]

Oh dear are you a fan of Andrew Tate?

[Dysney1023]

Also how can a man know women’s perspective on values without asking the individual women. Just like with men. You can’t generalize. And if you can you accept a watered down version of the truth. Lots of us don’t wanna settle for that.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Lol, so I can tell by that question you haven't been w/ HV man. No, I'm a fan of me as I would never be a fan of another human. We can be associates but I'm only fanatic about me.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Excellent question! Men who successful w/ women understand u don't judge a women by her words you judge her by her actions. Name one famous or public successful male figure that struggles attracting women? Generalizations is literally how the world operates, if you live in a democratic nation your elected officials are elected through a "general" election.

[Dysney1023]

You’re bringing personal into this? Okay sure! Are you in a relationship? A long term relationship? I’m not trying to be disrespectful either by asking. I can honestly say I have been in long term relationships. They have all been jerks. So lol maybe you’re right. High value men are scarce. But if you have been injured by cheating it’s easy to settle with someone who is just loyal. And I don't know I feel love is deeper than just being HV. Facts aren’t facts if they are statistics and general statements unless they also acknowledge they’re watered down.

[Dysney1023]

I just find it starve to take the advice from a man about a woman.

[Tomisworthless]

Would you rather have a man whose a virgin and nobody is attracted to or a guy with over a hundred female partners

[Dysney1023]

Hands down the man who loves me and himself. And doesn’t have any other partner but me!! Lol disloyalty is yucky. A lot of women tend to go for the unreachable guy because of avoidance. They don’t want to necessarily face themselves in a loyal relationship because deep down they feel unlovable. Avoidance is a protective mechanism. And it takes time to heal from but it is not impossible. Lol rant over.

[Dysney1023]

Also if you have a soul you’re extremely HV and I believe everyone on this planet does. But that’s just what I believe.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 You ask some good questions. No. I'm not bringing personal that contradicts your previous statement about generalizations. For me currently I'm in 3 1/2 relationships rn (I think I'm going to let one go) Most HV men keep a main, a side chick and a mistress. I don't think that question is disrespectful at all. That's good that you have had some long term relationships, now you just need to figure out how to retain HV men in those relationships which is where most women fail. Your rationale for a "loyal" guy makes perfect sense and also validates why I said u make emotionally charged decisions. For you as a woman the thought of a man you admire and respect, being unfaithful to you can be emotionally damaging. Which is probably why you've taken the stance you have. A HV man like me understands that women are going to move based on feeling so, a woman "cheating" is pretty normal, I'm fact studies show that men and women cheat at about the same rate. The difference is it takes average men so much longer to replace them so they're more likely to tolerated. As my post explains once a man reaches a certain status replacing women is easy. There's millions of beautiful women in the world and finances status allows me to access them. Facts are simply facts, your understanding or acceptance of them are completely up to you. There's literally 10% of the population that believes the earth is flat.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Who's asking you to take advice about women?

[Dysney1023]

Wait but do you think it’s desirable for most women that a man is Hv and has 3 side chicks?

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 You didn't answer his question which only validates my point.

[Dysney1023]

Oh I’d rather be single then

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 I don't quite understand your question. Are you asking do women desire a man that has 3 side chicks?

[Dysney1023]

Yes. A typical “HV” male. Usually has 3 women on the go at once you said. I don’t know of any HV woman being attracted to this no matter how handsome or how much money a man has. That’d be outrageous. I kinda rage at the thought of a human being treating other human beings like something they are not. An object. Something someone just acquires many of meaning they’re HV. Lol I want the lowest quality male if that’s an actual measure of value. I’m certain most women will unless they’re a gold digger.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Think about what you're saying. If a man has multiple women then by definition women are attracted to him. In fact of u think of almost all the most famous men throughout human history they all had multiple women. So it's not that "you don't know" it's that you don't like it as u said and typically when women don't like something they react from an emotional standpoint as u have. However You're actually completely delusional as most women do end up settling for the lowest quality male, because
1) That's usually the level most women are at
2) That's usually the level most women can retain.
Think about it like this. On Saturday Night I was in a room w/ Shaquille O'Neal, a former world champion UFC fighter, and some famous DJ (I don't know anything about UFC or DJ's) It was only a total of four of us in that room. If your "low quality" man walks in there he's going to be destroyed mentally and emotionally, by a group of Alpha men, that same man then goes home to you. How would that make you look?

[Dysney1023]

Au Contraire, you can’t actually call someone delusional when you’re the one who is. It’s all good you’ll get your karma in the end for thinking of women as you do. Good luck. Lol 😂

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 Simply stating a fact, how you choose to deal w/ it is up to you. I would say Karma has already gotten me that's why I've been so successful w/ women.

[Dysney1023]

We both know that is not true. If so spend time with your woman. Instead of arguing with strangers online. Take care.

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 That only proves how little women understand about women. A place like GAG is the perfect place to gather more information about female nature and apply online. It's unfortunate you're not able to learn anything from your interactions, and I spend enough of my time w/ all my women. It's important to keep them working to earn more of it.

[Dysney1023]

Yeah… i mean morals…. 🤣

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 I can't speak on your morals as I don't know you that well, however I didn't find anything "immoral" in your responses.

[Dysney1023]

I sure hope your “women” consent to the non-monogamous relationship. Are you a polygamist?

[Vegasrunner]

@Dysney1023 You can certainly spend your time "hoping" about my relationships however you're still thinking about how a generic dude dates. For HV men like myself we make the rules and women are happy to obey. There's nothing for them to "consent" to because what I do when they are not around is none of their business. What they're concerned about is taking advantage of the time they get w/ me when I'm around.

[Dysney1023]

That sounds beyond conceited and narcissistic. I hope you know that is what you sound like. Sounds far less valuable to me and majority of women. As I can speak for women as I am a woman. You are a man. Narcissists don’t have a place in society. Either evolve and become more self aware or stay off the internet. You cannot speak for them. So I hope you learn quick as if you don’t know what consent is you get tossed in the slammer or a mentally ill institution. And I will care about my fellow human beings and how they treat others. Lol morals. Maybe get some.

[Dysney1023]

Also for the record people who are emotional are not just women. Hahah I was looking at fellow women who happen to disagree with you. What a shock!! Am I right? Lol! It’s pathetic how you view a woman as something you can figure out and none of them agree with you 😠 and yes I am angry. A totally natural response to a monster. Thinking he owns the right to hurt people. You can cause people to have emotional break downs. Even kill themselves. But of course you wouldn’t care cuz that’s a narcissist. People can be destroyed by cheating. You make me sick you puny gross narcissistic boy. Grown ups take responsibility for their actions and words. And knowing a narcissist you’ll try to turn yourself into the victim or act like your superior. Lol 😂 stay off the internet. You don’t know what you are talking about. Let the adults handle the issues.

[Lionman95]

Bceause anyone is intimidated or at least feels under pressure when they know there are rivals for a person. Especially if a person has options it´s harder to impress them and keep their attention on you longer. I don´t think that´s a problem only women face.

[Kaamraj]

Both genders are intimidated by others that have more options because it means that we have to put in more effort, stand out and compete. And who says that men with more options should not exercise them. If you have done the work then you get to enjoy the fruits.

[Anonymous]

They want monogamy. It's already hard (in their mind) to stop a man cheating. But if he's appealing enough that other women make themselves options, or he's promiscuous enough to try to "enjoy" himself, then monogamy is off the table. And if he'll never be monogamous, that makes him unappealing.

You may be thinking they stop being interested because of intimidation, but it's unlikely. It's more likely they just don't see the point anymore.

[Nikki1989]

You are seriously delusional if you think this is even a thing.

Intimidated? 🤣🤣🤣

[cth2188]

😆 🤣

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly 😊😂😂😂😂

[sheikalana]

Intimidated? That doesn't intimidate me at all. Any women even average women have way more sexual options than the most attractive and successful man.

[Vegasrunner]

@sheikalana Different metric, woman are valued in their ability to retain a HV man. Men are valued on the number of women they can get.

[sheikalana]

Isn't that messed up?

[Vegasrunner]

@sheikalana No. That's simply the reality of life. Women only seem to care when these realities don't benifit them however.

[Enaya]

That's just not true at all. A guy who can pull multiple women is rare. A girl who can pull multiple men is just about every woman. We are not intimidated by him at all. We might just not want to be one of his women.

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya Correct, and being rare is tied to value, that's literally why precious metals are valuable. Since any girl can do it it's not very impressive whereas if only a few guys can do it as you said the ones that can should be applauded for their accomplishments correct?

[cosmosis181]

Huh... I never would've guessed. Because every pill popping, ebonics talking, trailer trash wannabe gangsta I've seen in half the craphole towns in Middle America has multiple baby mamas before age 25👀

[Vegasrunner]

@cosmosis181 You might want to ask yourself why you're spending so much time in craphole middle America towns.

[Enaya]

no. there is nothing appealing about men like that for women who want to settle down

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya Obviously there's something appealing because we are able to attract women.

[Enaya]

not really. I knew a handsome, rich double ivy league graduate who had to scratch the bottom of the barrel to spike his numbers while I could pull double that in high quality men. so the player had no appeal

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya "bottom" of the barrel is subjective. The fact that he was able to "spike" his numbers literally validates my point. Guys will bang any women so that is not an accomplishment for you. You're judged on the value of the man that you are able to retain.

[Enaya]

you make no sense. scraping bottom does not add to a man’s value, it bring it down. if i did that, i could pull 10 times as much

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya Those women are only considered "bottom" to you however the fact that he was able to attract them adds to his value. If you can pull 10 times, how many do you think a young attractive women could pull?

[Enaya]

numbers dont add value to him; you can believe it but that’s not how women see it

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya Lol, if that were remotely true then why is he able to continuessly attract women?

[Enaya]

the whole point was that attracting if your are scratching bottom barrel is neither rare nor special, most women can do that same without trying. it doesn’t add to their value at all.

[Vegasrunner]

@Enaya That's not a valid point because the "bottom of the barrell" is your biased opinion of those women. The unbiased reality is that he was able to continuessley attract woman, which raises a man's societal value. Women aren't valued by the number of men that will bang them they are valued by their ability to retain a man that other women want to get banged by.

[WhitneySnow]

If you mean men that a lot of women like, I don’t think girls are intimidated by that. I think they’re drawn to it.

[EmmaMary]

You really are talking a complete and utter load of Bollox.

Please do give us a few sensible and logical reasons why you think women are intimidated.

[Vegasrunner]

@EmmaMary I don't know why they're intimidated that's why I posed the question.

[mobiusforniner]

I do not understand. From my experience, a mans success, influence, and prosperity is directly proportional to female attraction.

[Anonymous]

My man had options when I met him. I was intimidated by him because he was so tall and masculine with a very muscular athletic build and so charming. I was instantly smitten

[cth2188]

I don't think any stable confident woman cares - especially when she can get laid too

[cth2188]

As for me I will avoid a promiscuous guy

[cth2188]

Do you Vegas

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 If that were true you wouldn't have to label the women. Labeling them allows you to disqualify anyone that actually proves your POV incorrect. Reality is majority of women are attracted to successful men, very few can retain them tho.

[cth2188]

Reality of today most women choose themselves and vibrators faithfully

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 You're speaking of the women that are looking for a HV man but are stuck fighting over the average Joe. Once u reach a certain status as a man its pretty easy to have women, perhaps the women you know are forced to masterbate but that's not really an issue for someone like me.

[cth2188]

Most women are today rather be single because most of you men are trash - another red flag avoid any man calling himself high value. Your money and value status means nothing if you don't have the character or respect as a man

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 The irony of your statement is that perspective only benifits someone like me. Because most women "would rather be single" I'm able to have pressure free NSA sex which is what most men actually want. If you have money as a man people have no choice but to respect you that's how the world operates.

[cth2188]

Noone cares about your sex do you Vegas and women like me are not participating no stds no worries about being used no pregnancy no headache etc you have your standards and women like me have ours

[cth2188]

I don't deal with men of today as most of you are trash and no good ! 🙂 👍 women like me choose the celibate / single life and I'm ok with that

[cth2188]

Men can do them and women like me are S I N G L E

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I don't recall asking you to participate. You're literally making my point. Whether you specifically want to have sex isn't relevant because I can just go get a woman who does. Your strategy only impacts men that have limited options.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 TY for the statement but I'm not sure why you feel the need to share it w/ me?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 There's nothing wrong w/ you being single. There's more eligible women then there are eligible men, when you add in the fact that there's a small number of HV men like me, then it's understandable why it's difficult for you to find someone.

[cth2188]

No one cares that you're whoring around men and women can do it regardless of status you make it seem like being a whore is an achievement it's not

[cth2188]

I'm not interested in finding anyone hence single by choice which means I am choosing to be single- I'm not interested in marriage or dealing with you men / too much to risk and don't have the energy to invest. I'm more happier single then alone. I was just offered marriage this week - I declined due to the fact I don't deal with low tier men

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Apparently u care as you continue to bring it up. The fact that any women can get laid only highlights how insignificant it is for women, because it's more difficult for men, those that can accomplish this have always been celebrated by society. That's why there are men that have built empires based on their ability to attract women.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 TY for sharing but not sure why you feel the need to share this w/ me. It's unfortunate that only lower tier men want you but if you stay positive and improve yourself maybe you could attract a higher status man?

[cth2188]

Noone CARES ABOUT YOU OR YOUR DICK ! GOOD GOD

[cth2188]

You have poor comprehension I've been single 11 years because I want to be not because I can't get a man. I'm not dealing with any man of today hence single by choice and I'm ok with that decision. I don't want you hvm either all the money and your character is 0

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Except apparently you. Every time I turn around you're tagging me.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Why does that matter? Who's asking you not to be single? I realize it's difficult for you to compete for a top tier man, but I don't see how it effects me.

[cth2188]

I'm just responding noone is tagging you not once

[cth2188]

I don't want any man idc if he's top tier or not most men need to work on themselves before approaching women of today

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Yes, you responded to the original question and every subsequent response. It seems as if you're extremely interested in this sibject.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 There's nothing wrong w/ that. I'm confused as to why you believe your preferences matter. If you want to remain alone simply remain alone, who is saying you need a man?

[cth2188]

I hate when men assume women can't find a man - men aren't the prize women are / were ! A woman of today is better off single

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Women can certainly find a man, it's difficult for them to retain a HV man. There's endless number of beautiful women in the world, w/ millions turning 18 everyday. There's only a small number of high value men though so because of supply and demand they would be the prize. That's why I have multiple girls but you can't lock down a HV man.

[cth2188]

Good go get em my daughters will never date you American men

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 That sounds like a win for American men.

[cth2188]

Who cares? It was never a competition so men shouldn't complain and go on about their business instead of focusing on women and what we're doing

[cth2188]

We know you men need attention it's ok

[cth2188]

I'm sick of you men being whiney it's annoying af

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I mean it's a win that they don't have to date your daighter

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Women literally will delete social media photos that don't receive the desired response. A man is happiest by himself away from destractions so that is completely false.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 You're literally the main person in this thread whinning. You were provided an opportunity to present an intelligent POV, failed and now continue to whine about men. For someone who doesn't need men you spend an awful lot of time discussing them.

[cth2188]

Noone cares about you men Vegas you care to posy for attention- I responded to the post - 📫 I don't even online date and haven't dated in over a decade. My life is at peace when men aren't involved.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 If you don't care about men why do you spend so much time complaining. I'm not surprised no one has dated you in over a decade, you dont seem like someone most men would prefer to spend their time with.

[cth2188]

Noone is complaining about men I made a comment and not once did you hear me complain - idc what you men do

[cth2188]

Do you - told a friend since he talked about whores go find him one - said he would pay a whore for ass - suits me lol not my vagina or pussy being used up.

[cth2188]

Rak through I took care of my vagina this morning 🌄 changing Jack now

[cth2188]

Charging him too lol 😆

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 You've made multiple and all them center around you complaining about your lack of success w/ men.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 TY for sharing that but I don't know what it has to do w/ our conversation.

[cth2188]

You have poor comprehension I'm single by choice which means I don't want to date it doesn't mean I can't get a man - I don't want one because I'm content being single @Vegasrunner not lonely nor desperate- dating is a choice and being in a relationship is one too. I simply don't care to date its that simple

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 TMI, not sure why you feel the need to share that, mastirbation is nothing to be embarrassed about.

[cth2188]

Masturbation is a beautiful thing a natural human experience. Plus it's safe no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no sti especially if women or men have morals, standards, values and choose not to date plus its safe 😉 @Vegasrunner

www.plannedparenthood.org/.../masturbation-healthy

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 That's what I just said. Glad you agree.

[cth2188]

Noone is embarrassed about masturbation

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Why would you be? Did someone tell you u should be embarrassed?

[Avicenna]

Women aren't intimidated by that- many are attracted to that.

[ProbablyClueless]

Women like to feel like the prize and like they are worthy of being adored by their partners. It's tough to come to terms with the fact that you might not be the main attraction of your relationship.

[CoolCatMar1]

It's not intimidating but real men don't cheat just because they have "options" LMAO

[Vegasrunner]

@coolcatmar1 "Real" is a subjective label women place when they lack evidence to back up how they feel. If what you were saying is true can you name 3 powerful, wealthy or famous men in the history of the world that doesn't have multiple women?

[CoolCatMar1]

Oh here we go, a dude who likes to cheat ok 😂👍

[Vegasrunner]

@coolcatmar1 TY for proving my point.

[CoolCatMar1]

Ohhh shut up dude

[Vegasrunner]

@coolcatmar1 TY for sharing that emotional charged response.

[Zatsuma]

Those so called intimidated women are the real ones enjoying their success as they know when to spot a player.

[Tomisworthless]

Women love players because he makes them feel comfortable and safe other men make them uneasy because they fear that he might kill or harm her in someway.

A player causes woman to put their guard down and gravitate to him that is why women are attracted to them despite saying to themselves they aren’t

[MementoMori777]

no lie im proud of all the women in this comment section

[Jacq_attack]

I don't see anything wrong with it at all. As long as he's not leading people on and is transparent to others then why not?

[CantMissIt]

Usually women go for exactly that type of guy.

[Tomisworthless]

They can sleep with that guy as it’s easy for a woman just to spread her legs to whomever she allows doesn’t mean she can get those guys to commit to her and only her

[Sasha0426]

Sure, enjoy your success. But, don’t expect a woman to stick around when she feels you’re just playing her.

[Vegasrunner]

@sasha0426 I don't think that's an issue. The value of the success is that you have plenty of women

[Sasha0426]

Then don’t ever expect a healthy and successful relationship.

[Sasha0426]

Expect a lot of gold diggers.

[Vegasrunner]

@sasha0426 None of those things have played out Luke that. Women are perfectly fine w/ sharing a successful man.

[Vegasrunner]

@sasha0426 All women are gold diggers some are just better at hiding the shovel.

[Sasha0426]

Oh, ok. Then that means your mom is a gold digger and you’re not biologically your father’s kid.

[Sasha0426]

Either that or she doesn’t know who your father is.

[Vegasrunner]

@sasha0426 That also means both you and your mother are also golddiggers.

[boggboss]

Depends what u mean the same way a women should be able to be picky when it comes to selecting a partner

[kakaling]

You are so wrong, it is not intimated, they are attracted to it. The girl that gets you is the true winner.

[msmissydc]

What kind of sexual opinions? generally we are not intimidated by that.

[Tomisworthless]

Lack of his commitment to you

[WhitneySnow]

@Tomisworthless well that’s different. A girls not gonna date a guy who cheats or is not committed to her once they’ve gotten serious anymore than a guy is going to date a girl who does that. Now if they’re just casual that’s different. But then both of them are casual.

[Tomisworthless]

@WhitneySnow she would if he’s a catch and she doesn’t want to lose him, especially if he can finance her a materialistic lifestyle

[WhitneySnow]

@Tomisworthless that’s stupid. And shallow.

[Tomisworthless]

@WhitneySnow aren’t we all

[Anonymous]

Well it's exactly the same in both directions isn't it? They lack self esteem. They have insecurities.

[LiamJHayden]

You mean women who prefer to be a priority rather than an option?

[Pohjolan]

Statistically they are not.

[beebella]

We're not "intimidated", we're turned off by it.

[cth2188]

I know I am and don't care about a man's track record

[Vegasrunner]

@beebella If that was true how are we able to attract multiple women in the first place?

[Anonymous]

Because I don't want his STD's