Why does my sister criticize what I do?

[Miss_Pretty]

Im going to be visiting my sister this weekend at her trailer and want to bring my son and girlfriend. I enjoy having him and his girlfriend there and it doesn't bother me she comes along but my sister is asking why I tote someone else's kid around with me. I don't even know why she would ask me that. I was having a great night untill she said this. Why does it even matter what I do? It makes me feel upset and awkward about even going now. I would still like to go because I grew up at this camp and I enjoy being there. I was curious your thoughts? Thank you!

[jeffend888]

It’s because she doesn’t respect you or your life decisions. This is very typical when people don’t do things the correct, natural way.

Respect is subconscious. I have been dealing with disrespect of epic proportions over the last 3 years due to unnatural, “going against the grain” circumstances.

If people can’t relate to you, they’re not going to respect you. You want to be contrarian, these are the consequences.

[Miss_Pretty]

I agree. I don't feel she respects me. I'm also wondering if there could be some jealousy too? Thank you for your great advice 😊

[jeffend888]

No, she’s not jealous. It’s coming from a place of disrespect. I constantly deal with this from extended family members.

[Alli39]

Lack of self-control? Inability to relate/empathize? Legitimate question phrased in a way that did not communicate her intent well? Call it immaturity and ignore it unless you're dealing with a consistent issue of in her behavior.

[MementoMori777]

It just seems like she just blurs out what she thinks and said it out loud, don't worry too much about it y'all have a good time and bring whoever you want wherever you want 💯

[Miss_Pretty]

Great advice. Thank you so much!

[MementoMori777]

💯💯