Why does my sister always criticize me all the time?

[Anonymous]

From a young age, she always told me I shouldn’t take AP classes because she thought they were too hard for me, she told me I shouldn’t do what I’m doing for a career and that I should live the chill life, any time I experienced a setback she put me down for it and told me I should move back to my hometown from the big city I live in and work around there. For reference I am a software engineer in a big city and after I lost my job end of last year she asked nosy questions and told me I should move back to my hometown, and said I could easily find a place there that’s nicer than where I currently live. I live in a luxury high rise and she’s suggesting these homes back in that area. I’m tired of the way she criticizes me and wonder why she does it?

[RoseySarah]

Cause she is your sister and will always look down on you!

Some day you did something to make her not like you and hate you. Like out smarting her so she just projects what she feels about herself onto her smart big sister.

My sister does this too. Like she will never be happy for me.

[Anonymous]

Smells like jealousy to me.

[Asker]

We have different directions in life. She settled down earlier and has 3 kids. I’m still young and working on my career before having a family.

[Opinion Owner]

She might regret having kids.

[Asker]

No she doesn’t. She loves them and I love them too. They’re my little nephews.
More than her I’d say mg brother in law seems more unhappy and he picks on me more.