How to approach a girl that I hurt before (long story)?

[MwMax0]

(Amanda)
Amanda was my girlfriend, we decided to move to a different city. a few months after our, Covid-19 struck, and we faced financial struggles. but we managed to earn During the lockdown she got a job and me as freelancer

During this time, I noticed a change in Amanda's behavior, I trusted her completely but discovered she had been cheating. I couldn't move due to the lockdown. So, I ended up living with her. While things seemed to cool down, Eventually, I had the opportunity to move and stay with a friend, but Amanda's constant calls I decided to give her a second chance.

(Amanda - Second Chance)
2 years, things started fine and later turned dramatic and problematic. Every conversation turned into an argument for no reason, and our physical intimacy to four times a year. It felt like we were housemates than a couple. During one argument, she told me, she hated me and that we were merely housemates. After hearing this, I moved out and went back to my friend's place.

(Maria)
While staying at my friend's place, I met Maria, and we ended up sleeping together. I wanted to be with Maria, but I had to return to Amanda's place to collect the rest of my belongings. Amanda questioned me about moving out, unaware of Maria's existence. I decided to be honest and told her about what she said during our argument. She apologized, but I moved out after two weeks.

I tried to maintain contact with Maria, I didn't want any more drama, so I kept my involvement with Maria a secret. When I finally went back to Maria, she was hurt, wondering why I didn't call or text her, and why I had slept with her if I wasn't serious about our relationship. I felt terrible, and though I apologized, she was still hurt. She asked for space, which I respected, but I genuinely want to apologize properly and make things right.

Now, almost a year later, I want to talk to Maria again, but I'm not sure how to approach her and what to say to mend things between us.

[Alli39]

Wait, it's a year after all this? Honestly if she (Maria) never contacted you in all that time, she's probably not still intersted. It sounds like you lowkey ghosted her in order to hide your relationship from your ex, which honestly is pretty disrespectful to Maria and I'm not surprised she decided to end things. It's been way too long to jump back into this. Go find someone new you can form a respectful and healthy relationship with and leave both these women in your past, for your sake and for theirs.

[MwMax0]

"lowkey" I agree,
"disrespectful" you do not need to open your past relationships or the drama because that some times give them insecurities ( Not sure but that what I experienced )

but what you said is true I just hoped that maybe there was a chance, that's why I needed other people opinions

[menina]

It sounds like Maria isn't interested in talking to you. If she was, she would reach you out. I suppose she's still hurt and she has reasons to feel hurt.

I guess you could still talk to her but only as a friend. That is, if she still wants to talk to you.

[Avicenna]

I'd leave her alone unless someone who knows her indicates she is open to talking to you

[MwMax0]

I think you are right in this point and I was thinking the same, but I needed other people opinion too

[strateguy632]

she rejected your apology so stop stalking her. really.

[MwMax0]

she did not reject the apology actually she accepted it, but i thought give her space is better than talking about relationship by that time, but i never knew when the good time

[In_Trance]

You don't want to talk to her.
You're bored and have no other options. Move on

[MwMax0]

To be Honest I am not bored
I just know that she was someone that I hoped I made better decisions about

[Anonymous]

You need to let it go.