Like I asked who would you respect more? The woman who respects her body or the woman who dressed like a whore and feels fine with it? What girl would you like to bring home with you?
Sexualized? I'd probably look and think "hot body" or whatever.
I'd think she's loose and if I were single and we met and had some chemistry I'd probably think this could be a short fling. Never a girlfriend or wife. I don't take girls blatantly walking around letting it all hang out seriously because I'd never want my wife doing that.
If she is modest and we met and had some chemistry... I'd think, let's see where this goes, maybe we'll agree we think the other is nice but we are not compatible... or whether we click and can go much further.
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It depends.
If she's in public, modest, but if she's at home and hanging out with me, and wanting for me specifically to see her in something skimpy in order to advertise her interest in me, then the skimpy clothes are prefered. It can also be useful to dress skimpy on a dating site.
If she's at home with me and we are already a couple, I'd prefer she wasn't wearing anything at all and did not waste money on skimpy clothing anymore, and that she dress modestly in public or around others in general.
So basically lewd clothing has its use, but its a short term use, not a fashion style in my opinion. It should only be used to advertise being single and a "this is what you get if we become a couple" sort of deal. It should not be used to disrespect your spouse by showing off to everyone.
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Without a doubt first impressions matter. I mean just because she dressed in a sexualized manner doesn't automatically make her a bad person. But it does up the likelihood. I'll put it this way a woman showing an excessive amount of skin would NOT be my first choice.
outside of the bare minimum baseline level of respect, the more modesty dressed woman gets more respect
Wow, okay, that's not appropriate language to refer to women who dress differently
As a men it's my duty to respect all women's I don't judge based on sexy outfits or hijab.
Respect is respectIthink the way people dress is a poor, stupid metric for respect.
I am sexually attracted to women who wear revealing clothes, but I have no respect for them.
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