Ladies in your own words how would you describe a "High value man"?

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From your perspective, how would you define in your own words as to what you would consider a "High value man" in your life? What traits of admiration and or anything for that fact compared to what you wanted. Consider your theory or to what you have now?

A_Bell · Accepted Answer

Someone who stands up for himself and his family, protects and honors his wife, teaches and cares for his children, prefers their company to the bros.

He takes care of himself physically but not to some ridiculous excess. Shares his weak moments with his wife but doesn't burden others with too many juvenile trivial matters that adults deal with every day.

He doesn't need to share my level of cleanliness. I am a mother and nesting instincts are strong and compulsive. I make the choice to obsess over certain things. Also I don't work, so I only want him doing the greasy, heavy and spidery things.

If I worked full time (I wouldn't until all our kids are at least pre-teen.) I would expect more help, but not an equal share, because I'm the one making the unreasonable demand. We don't need small table after small table of trinkets and plants to act as dust magnets or lots of other things. We have them because I wanted what I thought was pretty. He'd live with bare walls and a TV and desk.

Finally, he should treat everyone with dignity and respect, until the person demands otherwise through their own behavior.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Believer. Prays. Honest. Mature. Intelligent. Reads and stays informed. Doesn't post himself on the internet attention seeking.

Isn't rotating a roster of women.

Healthy, good shape. Business owner/entrepreneur preferably. Passionate about what he does.

I don't mind if a man doesn't have much money. I used to prefer it because a man's true character is shown when he has no money. This has changed because "poor" men are so insecure about their lack of money that I've always been treated really badly due to their insecurities about their perceived lack of success.

No flabby belly.

5'8" minimum height.

I have a physical preference for dark-haired tanned or mixed race, red to cocoa shaded black men but it isn't set in stone.

Indo Pak, and any Asian need not apply. Many are attractive but just don't do a thing for me. Also, Indo Pak mother in laws. No, no and no.

Not a prude. Protective. Supportive and not judgmental. Who is a dreamer that pursues his own dreams or can support and cheer for a woman who does.

GenderEqualityMyth · Accepted Answer

Don't ask women these types of questions. 99% of them are lying because the truth doesn't make them look good. If you think about the generic good traits, you will absolutely not find women chasing these guys. They want a dangerous, resourceful, confident man who takes no shit from anyone. Especially women.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Tall, Masculine, Handsome Face and Blue Eyes, someone like Henry Cavill in other words.

Anonymous · Answer

The self identified "high value man" is valueless to women who aren't a high-priced prostitute (as many women with "high value men" are ONLY there due to money because bluntly they don't have anything of value to offer except money). The statistical self identified "high value man" has attitude problems, is shallow, insecurity, an unappealing nature, etc. - hence flashy suits & cars to compensate. Look at people like Andrew Tate - an abuser & rapist - a perfect example of absolute uselessness.

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LazerBean · Answer

Dependable, capable, respected, good reputation, good family and family relationships, takes care of himself, makes good life choices, strong values, considerate, loving, and self controlled, attractive.

scentoflavender · Answer

Confidence, and the ability to back it up. Handling their responsibilities. Growing past who they were. Accepting mistakes and learning from them.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

A conservative man. A protecter and provider for his wife and kids. Or a man who is working for that. A man with self discapline, masculine etc :)

Anonymous · Answer

A man who doesn't use terms like "high value man"

JesseP1nk · Answer

Its funny... because words women describe are traditional values, yet they themselves consider themselves modern and raise THEIR SONS to be modern. Not to MENTION they hate influencers that tell young men to be traditional.

inhua · Answer

doesn't matter what words are spoken. their actions will speak for themselves

KrakenAttackin · Answer

The responses below are typically laughable.

Christoff92 · Answer

Full of confidence, emotional managed, honest

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

You reek of desperation. Pathetic.

pinconon · Answer

my dad

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