While tickling a girl I accidentally touched her boobs, should I apologize?

[drummer]

This is my friend but not a girlfriend, while I was tickling her I accientally pressed her boobs. I think she realized it but I didn't say anything. Should I apologize now or is it late for it? There was a different tension and I couldn't say anything at that moment.

[benefiel]

Yes, if you accidentally touched a girl's breasts while tickling her, it's a good idea to apologize. But i think maybeee its "a little bit" late. Accidental physical contact can happen, especially during playful moments like tickling, and it's essential to acknowledge it respectfully for the next time (i hope, that's not happen). Here's what you can do:

Immediate acknowledgment: If you both notice the accidental contact, you can say something like, "I'm sorry about that, it was unintentional."
Be sincere: Make sure your apology comes across as genuine and sincere. Avoid making light of the situation or making inappropriate jokes.
Respect her response: After apologizing, allow her to express how she feels about the situation. She may appreciate your apology and understand that it was accidental.
Boundaries and communication: Use this as an opportunity to discuss boundaries and consent. Ask if she's comfortable continuing the tickling or if she would prefer a different activity.
Learn from the experience: Accidents can be a chance for growth and improved awareness. Be more mindful in the future to prevent similar situations.

Remember that open and respectful communication is essential in any relationship, and handling accidental contact with maturity and empathy can help strengthen trust and understanding between you and the other person.

[Anonymous]

You’re thinking too much. It’s weird if you go apologizing time after it happened like if you’re thinking about her boob the entire time will likely make her feel weirder about it.

[gayesblog]

It is quite late, you should have apologized at that moment.

[Anonymous]

an accidental boob tickle is unforgiveable.
Unless you put on a frock like the mary you seem to be and give her a cucumber to shove up your gay arse in recompense.
i mean jesus, what kind of man tickles people in the first place, gaylord

[FunkyMonkee]

If you were going to, it should've been then. If she hasn't said anything about it, don't worry about but, if you feel guilty or it'll make a difference with her, go ahead and do it.

[ItsChloe1999]

It’s too late now!!! Trust me if she was upset or angry about it she would of slapped you across the face then and there. I surely would of done and would any other self respecting woman.

[BadApple69]

I wouldn’t worry about it. If she didn’t say something at the time then let it go.
Here is something to think about… you might apologize for something that she enjoyed 😊

[rachel776]

if a 34 year old man for some reason is tickling a girl she probably wants him to feel her boobs

[AmeerX]

It's weird of him to do it but you are right

[Friendlybro79]

If she seemed ok afterwards and is acting normal, the time might have passed, but it's probably ok if it was a geniune accident. That said none of us can speak for her.

Also 34 and tickling a friend? Lol

[Nikki1989]

At your age, you shouldn't be tickling anyone.

[Constatine]

Yes you do... You didn't intent to but it happen... At least you can say that you didn't plan this and you hope it never happens again...

[soulOnDisplay]

Naw mang, don't worry about it. That would be expected to happen accidently during that kind of thing. Trust me, forget it.

[AngryCarl2]

Dude you shouldn't be tickling a girl who isn't your girlfriend. And frankly she shouldn't be allowing it.

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly i had one dude do it to me once i was very furious

[Juxtapose]

Why so prudish dude?

[AngryCarl2]

@Juxtapose I'm not a prude.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Simply say you want to apologize for what you have done, all she can do is yell at you or simply accept your apology.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you attracted to the girl? Have any romantic/sexual interest in her?

[ProbablyClueless]

You should probably apologize for the tickling, but I doubt the boob press was an issue for her.

[Surely]

If you wanted to apologize. You should have done it at the time. If she enjoyed the tickling and you didn’t grab her full on, on purpose. Then accidents happen!

[kellytheman]

It probably too late to apologize but I feel it was a accident and she is probably okay. It might just be awkward or wired if she just bring it up and say sorry about touching your boob.

[AviatorTom]

Too late. No need to apologize now. It was incidental contact.

[BigDog1989]

If she didn't "want it", she wouldn't be letting you "tickle her". She likes you dude

[RingOfFire]

Don't be surprised if you find yourself arrested for sexual assault and she sees a juicy lawsuit ahead.

[Guido]

You missed the opportunity. You should have said something at the time. She knows it was accidental but still you should have said something if it was a significant touch.

[Mac-One]

Since it is rather late and she didn't indicate a problem at the time best to let it go.

[FellowTraveler]

My thinks NO since women will let you know they enjoyed the tickling or not.

[OddBeMe]

Moments gone so don’t make it worse. I’m sure she’s fine.

Do you want to be more than friends?

[justabuddy]

I would say watch the situation. If she starts acting weird around you apologize. If nothing changes don't. She will think you are apologizing because you did it on purpose.

[Juxtapose]

If she doesn't seem uncomfortable around you she probably doesn't give a shit.

[zagor]

No, let it go. It would be more awkward apologizing.

[SmilingSmurf]

Definitely apologize, otherwise it may come across to her that you intended to do it. If she's a decent friend she'll understand.

[AmeerX]

No bad idea. It was a spur of the moment situation, either say what he wanted then and there or not at all

[riverrat3]

Accidents happen, if you make it a habit, it is not an accident

[katiesmuff]

A bit late for that to happen.

[spartan55]

You think you did? 🙄

[In_Trance]

What kind of friends tickle each other at 34?

[Juxtapose]

I love tickling and some women don't mind getting touchy if you don't get too flirtatious.

[boobliker]

only if she stopped smiling and playing

[Wise4myage]

I say let it go, just don't do it again.

[driven159]

no that was a part of playing around

[LunarEclipse433]

No unless she seemed offended

[azgınteke]

no sorry never mind.

[Anonymous]

too late now

[Cheerfull009]

Yes, you must

[Anonymous]

dont apologize