How do I find out what's wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

So it's going to be a rather long post.

So I'm 19, and never had a girlfriend. It's probably because I didn't really care, until about this summer. There were a few girls who liked me.

I'm good-looking (I'm tall, athletic, nice face), some people tell me I'm really good-looking. I can easily talk with people and make them laugh. But for some reason I got rejected by every girl I liked.

On the other hand I asked out like 7 girls so far. So I'm 0-7. I think it's probably my personality, but how can I find out on what should I change?

[Sweetsurprize]

1. It's probably your generation. People in your generation, your peers, don't really value commitment or having a relationship sometimes. They'd rather focus on other things like video games, friends and bros, their studies, their family, college prep. etc. At least that is what I remember I was more focused on when I was in your age range, for the most part.

2. I don't really know you. The BEST option is to go to people who are closer to you. Ask them sincerely where you could improve upon.

3. Go to singles events and clubs at your school. Actually when I was your age, I didn't really have trouble meeting people or at least keeping my old friends and classmates. It's only when I got older and people started drifting away to college, or getting married and starting families that it became THAT much harder to make and keep single friendships! Their priorities (selfish that may be), had changed. Friendship was no longer what they were concerned about sadly. It was their new boyfriend/fiance, or college, or whatever.

4. Lastly, just be more social. You're only 19. You're acting like your my age lol.

[Sweetsurprize]

Sorry the spacing isn't so big. I don't know why G@G doesn't allow for much spacing in between paragraphs.

[236color]

7 girls rejected you? So you keep trying. I wouldn't assume that there is anything wrong with you just because 7 girls don't want to date you. 2 of them may already have boyfriends, 1 could be gay, 2 may not find you attractive, 1 is a no sex before marriage evangelical Christian, 1 may just not be attracted to you, and 2 could be on the mend from a bad relationship. Now, if you're rejected 75 times, then maybe time to get some help determining if it's you. At this point, your sample size is too small.

[slatyb]

Hard to say without knowing more about you. Were there's women you already knew, or women you had just encountered?