My ex broke up with me a few months ago. Since school started about a month ago, my ex has shown me mixed signals. She explained that she didn’t leave because she stopped caring or loving me, but that she still thought there’s no hope for us. In the few weeks after that, she’s continued to talk to me, try to sit next to me or in my orbit, remembered small details about me and us, frequently glanced at me and made eye contact, and seemed both happy and sad when ever she had closer interactions with me. she has teased me playfully, blushed and fidgeted when interacting with me, looked happier than usual when talking to me and has had a difficult time with life stuff all around for quite a bit of time now. She’s admitted to overthinking about us a whole lot and crying quite frequently recently/past few weeks.
I feel that she still has feelings for me and I still have feelings for her. Our breakup was a result of behavioral issues which I resolved on my end and have moved forward from. The factors that led to her decision aren’t there anymore and I’m in a completely different place from where I was back then. I don’t know how to open us up for the possibility of trying again. I know I’ve changed and that I can still be her person. Our sense of safety in each other is still there and she’s made few attempts to fully move one and detach. I’m lost as to how to approach this and how to make a second attempt look reasonable, safe and comfortable
