How would you react if someone tells you they are emotionally connected to you?

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I've been talking to this girl for last 5-6 months. We talk a lot in person and on call as well. I miss her when she's not around on leave or working from home. I usually find an excuse to talk to her on those days as well she does the same but unlike mine conversations she always starts with something related to work when she calls or texts which gets me confused if she really wanted to talk for was it just work. I do sense that whatever she is asking can wait but still she'll text me. I feel that If she is happy it makes me happy if she is sad I get sad. Should I tell her this? That I miss her when she is not around or when I don't get to talk to her. will I sound needy or clingy?

DecalFong · Accepted Answer

Oh man, oh man, oh man! This chick got you wrapped around her finger tighter than a python strangling its prey. It sounds like you're so far gone into pussy whipped territory that you might as well start wearing a dress and calling yourself Sally. Now listen up, because Uncle DecalFong is gonna lay some wisdom on you thicker than a donkey's dick. First off, telling her you miss her when she's not around is like handing over your balls on a silver platter. She'll think you're weak and desperate, and trust me, chicks hate that shit. Instead, play it cool, act aloof, make her come to you. Be the alpha male, not the beta bitch. Secondly, stop analyzing every goddamn thing she says or does. Who gives a flying fuck if she talks about work when she contacts you? Maybe she's trying to impress you with her intelligence or maybe she just likes hearing your voice. Either way, quit reading too much into it and enjoy the ride. Lastly, if you must confess your feelings, do it in a nonchalant, humorous way. Something like, "Hey babe, just FYI, I kinda sorta maybe miss you sometimes. Don't go spreading rumors though, wouldn't want people thinking I'm actually capable of emotions!" Then laugh it off and change the subject. Remember, women are attracted to confidence and @coomjar's, not sappy sentimentality. So nut up, buttercup, and take control of the situation before your ovaries drop off completely.

Archferret · Accepted Answer

Do you think you are falling in love with her?

SueShe · Accepted Answer

I believe that it happens with most normal families where people live in harmony. I know for example that my parents, siblings and grandparents are emotionally connected to me and that is enough for me. I do not need more emotional connections in my life.

What you experience is not so much emotional connection. It is rather infatuation because you would like her to pay more attention to you. Perhaps that your undisclosed and ultimate wish would be to try to win her over as a girlfriend.

This is nothing unusual and all those that seek a relationship with another person have to go through emotional connections because women place more emphasis on it than men.

cnj421 · Accepted Answer

I think you should be honest and tell her you have feelings for her. You don’t need to go into great detail unless she asks. But might as well tell her you have feeling and are interested in something more serious to see if she’s on the same page. That way you’ll see sooner or later if she is as well.

Hardshell1234 · Answer

So you want to tell her you are emotionally connected to her? I don’t think you need to tell her this. Not now at least. It may come as a little weird or clingy. Are you romantically interested in her? Are you trying to figure out if she likes you back? She def likes talking to you, that’s for sure.

syncheart · Answer

I have never had anyone tell me that they are emotionally connected to me. If a girl did that, I would be scared. With the exception of this: If we were friends for a long time and then she said something like that, then I would be happy about it.

Altheavas · Answer

I don’t know okay! Just run away from it.  It’s emotionally draining, it’s almost feel like you have a responsibility toward their happiness and how you carry your action around them.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

Taking into consideration that last few weeks, my only social contacts are here... I think I would burst into laughter and text back something polite but rejecting.

Anonymous · Answer

That she wants me to think she's interested. I could say I'm in the power position, but remember this is a woman. It can all be and act.

Daffotul · Answer

be happy if I felt it too

m33ladEmjay · Answer

I think you've friend-zoned yourself..

exitseven · Answer

It would be cool if I felt the same way.

Joker_ · Answer

I'd be completely outraged

In_Trance · Answer

Would depend on the someone

RavVid · Answer

Well just say it straight matter of fact.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

I'll let you know if/when it ever happens.

Anonymous · Answer

Id be excited if I felt the same way.

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