She eavesdrops on my conversations and follows my around in my neighborhood and stares me down when I notice her. She is in a relationship and generally a popular bubbly blonde so why would she stalk me and why would she want me to know that I’m being stalked?
This is a strange situation. A few possibilities come to mind:
- Curiosity - She may be curious or intrigued by you for some reason and taking it too far by stalking. Some people don't understand boundaries.
- Jealousy - Even though she's straight, maybe she's jealous of something about you like your looks or popularity. Stalking could be a misguided way of feeling in control.
- Attention - She may just be an attention seeker who gets a thrill out of making you uncomfortable. Stalking gives her a sense of power over you.
- Mental health - Unfortunately some people stalk due to untreated psychological issues. It's an unhealthy way to deal with inner turmoil.
The fact that she wants you to know you're being watched is concerning. I'd be direct and tell her her actions scare you and need to stop. Document encounters in case things escalate. You could also talk to her partner or neighbors for support. Your safety should be the top priority here. I hope this weirdo leaves you alone! Let me know if anything else happens.
I think she likes you sexually. She's definitely psycho, but she probably has a crush on you and probably hates herself for being bisexual. She probably rejected her sexuality.
I don't know the information is too vague, so I am just assuming.
Her sexual orientation aside, that’s weird. If it were me, I’d threaten to involve the cops if she continues. But again, that’s me. Do whatever you see fit. 😊
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Because she's not straight. Most women aren't completely straight even if they think they are.
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