Are some women really that petty?

[BrightBubblyKat]

My best friend * Nina* admitted she’d felt like a disloyal friend for inviting her second best friend *Alex*, with her tickets to see a live performance of her favourite band. She’d always thought until I clarified a few things, that I was either jealous of Alex’s friendship with her, or mad that he refused to date me years ago. I explained that it wasn’t this, it was the way he’d insulted me about my family background and gossiped to Nina about my asking him out, a feeling of having my privacy disrespected that made me realise that my interest in him was only physical and that as a person, I found him very annoying. Would some women really resent a man for multiple years for rejecting her and/or be jealous of her close friendship with said man? I have Asperger’s, so I’m a very logical person and I don’t understand.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah. Some men, too. It's so obnoxious when you have someone like that as a "friend of a friend" situation. I'd rather cut them from my life entirely. Nobody has time for that shite. Well, apparently too MANY people have time for that shite. I'm not one of them.

[boggboss]

Yes lol that's not uncommon or abnormal your friend wouldn't be worried about it if it didn't happen

[BrightBubblyKat]

Oh, to me, that seems bizarre.

[boggboss]

Many people hold grudges its not that uncommon but fair enough

[Staximus]

Yeah, unfortunately

[BrightBubblyKat]

Why are they like that?

[Staximus]

Because they don't like being rejected, it makes them feel worthless

[BrightBubblyKat]

Oh, I still don’t get why it makes them mad. He had as much right to reject me as I did to reject his friendship.

[jimmy2]

Ohh I understand many men finds as a woman with some kind of issue medical is hands off rather in reality they don't understand

[ProbablyClueless]

Ohhh yeah. Lots of people are like that.

[eagle1951]

yeah

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course.