Do women test you by creating a scene in which you may lose her?

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What i should do?

razelove · Accepted Answer

Most women do. Men should too. If it's anything more than a test for consistency, then walk away. Like what you're talking about, with causing a scene, it isn't worth your time, and if you're in a public venue there are other women to pick up if there's no attachment.

If they're testing your consistency, and it's only one or two times, joke around some, ignore it for the most part, and realize it's just one way of them expressing interest. Like why would they care if you really drive a motorcycle (or whatever, play the flute, eat a peach for hours) if they aren't interested.

I say men should too, because it's far too often that we're simping for average women instead of making sure that who we're with is who they say they are. If they give you tests, give them tests too. Never be afraid of losing a girl you don't have anything with.

Like unless you have assets or kids together, be willing to walk away, she will always have options and be willing to walk away if you're being too clingy too fast. Everyone wants attention, no one wants a clinger.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Women will test you by nature. They want to make sure you are a man who will protect and provide and stick around when the going gets tough... only way to know is making it tough. What should you do? Pass the stupid test and move on. If the tests keep coming then move on from her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I talk, ask questions about what they would do if such happens etc, but creating such situation is like playing with fire taking risk which definitely I'm never going to do. A relationship is very much precious for me and playing such kind tricks I'm never going to risk it.

If someone does so create such situations for such kind game they are toxic manipulating and enjoy seeing you on your knees begging. Better you should leave such kind person. For the person relationship is such kind game they don't deserve a relationship.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I don’t do that…

But I have lots of men wanting to be in touch with me and I have to choose 1 out of 50-100 I respond, If I don’t see the same effort from the man I like, I don’t have time for testing him,

I have limited number of eggs and he is wasting my time,

I am off to a man who values my time and me more.

Finchie40 · Answer

Sadly a lot of women do this to their men because she is manipulative and controlling , and she is insecure and feels you will leave her , even though she is being a huge bitch to you , she wants you to say No baby everything is ok I love you and I don’t want to lose you , , but instead you are saying fine , let’s separate and go or separate ways , when you agree with her , she gets even more scared and vicious toward you , it’s sadly a unhealthy relationship and you should really reconsider staying with a girl like that , she is just going to make your life a living hell, let someone else have her , he will be doing you a favor , trust me

genericname85 · Answer

so if she creates a scene to manipulate you into doing what she wants and she gets away with it by you complying and doing what she wants: guess what your future relationship with her is gonna be like.

with your partner you should be able to talk about issues and desires. negotiate with them like an actual partner. if your girl can't do that, turst me... you don't wanna be with her.

like don't ignore her. confront her. tell her this is not how you want your partner to be in a relationship and give her the option to leave if she's not ok with that.

Sameone · Answer

It's normal thing she just wants to know if you are going to fight for her or no
It happens to me she ask me what you are going to do if i died
I told her you are going to be the last women in my life ( she like the awnser)
But she cheated me in end

serious · Answer

Yes of course they do. Things playing hard to get, using the jealousy card and other psychological tactics etc.

I have always been single but if a woman ever does these things with me even as a friend, acquaintance then instantly she will be out of my life and forever.

There will be no forgiveness and no second chances given

Nirmroth · Answer

Talk with her what the issue is. Tell her you take it very serious.

Then actually listen to what she says and talk about it.

Most stable persons won't create a scene for nothing you may loose her for real if you ignore her or dont take it seriously.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

The real test is signing a pre-nup or who's names are always on the bills (and any future offspring if any) in terms of any pre-planning ahead on women's parts for divorces in the future lol. The amount of men who never see a divorce coming lol from their woman who settled for less lol 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I lost a classmate who was killed by the woman husband. She didn’t tell him she was married until they got done having sex. husband came home from work early after hearing they were messing around and killed him. He went in the field and killed his self. Leave a woman if they ever play these games with you. That’s how so many get set up

HelpfulWoman · Answer

not if they're mature. if they do and you know they set it up, dump their ass and never speak to them again.

NathanDavis · Answer

I've only been with grown-ups... even the high-school one

blueonblack22 · Answer

All women shit test men. All. It’s biological and often subconscious.  But depending on how much she likes you the easier her tests will be and frequency of when she pulls them.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

some for sure do, especially if they are insecure and have doubts...

Pinay_ako · Answer

Create scenes? What? Test? Who has time for all that drama? If your partner does that, lose her. Walk away. It’s not worth it.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

This will require a very personalized response. Begin with thinking for yourself how far someone is allowed to manipulate you, and how much you'd really care to lose her.

tzdc21 · Answer

If she starts testing and playing games, you move the hell along. Don't waste your time with stupid little games.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I've never had a woman test me before for any reason, I don't allow dishonest women to stay in my life long enough to become my best friend, let alone my girlfriend or wife.

msc545 · Answer

The few women that have pulled this with me quickly learned that was going to backfire on them and they would never see me again. And that is exactly what happened. I don't put up with stuff like this.

rosemilk · Answer

only if they're insecure and toxic with a lot of drama and baggage

Anonymous · Answer

This sort of stuff only works on guys that place women on a pedestal. My life is peaceful. Any hint of drama or nonsense and she will be ejected from my life immediately.

sheikalana · Answer

A lot of women do this. That's childish and manipulative. If someone's doing that to you cut her off your life immediately.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I'm not an actor to cast in a scene, which means if she puts me in a scene than i'll put her in sceneS... Or i'll just dump her because i do not have time for such childish games...

WhitneySnow · Answer

I guess some girls might. If that happens you should talk with her.

RSav4013 · Answer

Without knowing any of the context, it's difficult to answer

slatyb · Answer

Games are for children. That would be an instant deal-breaker.

JacobJordan · Answer

If a woman tests you then she showed she isn't worth your time.

worldscolide · Answer

Only the idiotic worthless childish manipulative ones.

Unit1 · Answer

if they do that, then its time to find a new girl

Peridot25 · Answer

If you ever come across a woman like that, run. And run far away.

admles · Answer

Only childish, immature women "test" their partner in relationships. Zero tolerance for it myself.

Anonymous · Answer

I've seen guys do this with trying to make a girlfriend jealous. Even, dude.

AmeerX · Answer

If a girl tests you, just leave her alone and get on with your life. No kind games

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some do. I do not play games, so if she tries that manipulation I move on.

noohair · Answer

Women constantly do this testing crap and eventually it destroys the relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

If men tested women the way women test men, life would no longer exist.

Nikki1989 · Answer

That is teenager kind of stuff.

laly520 · Answer

the insecure ones do that

exitseven · Answer

I used to hate all the games girls used ot play.

Jones_Feb22 · Answer

really they do like it

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Run dude, if she does that

Enginn · Answer

I'm sure some do. Trust issues exist.

Anonymous · Answer

No woman that is mentally healthy.

strateguy632 · Answer

.5th

Anonymous · Answer

Tests don't exist. You're paranoid.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Constantly

Iron_Man · Answer

I believe so

austinbooth · Answer

No they don’t

dolemite58 · Answer

Ghost her

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