Female friend sent me pics of her in her bra that I didn’t ask for.. thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Apparently she also has a boyfriend

[_Maya_]

Well that isn't typical behavior. What did she say when she sent it? Did she just send that and nothing else and what was the conversation surrounding her sending that to you? That might give me a clue as to why but in the end it is inappropriate and she is doing to get a reaction out of you. While seeing a girl in a bra is no real big deal the fact that she is in a relationship and sending semi provocative pictures is a big no no. There is reason behind those actions and I am not sure what hers are. The first thing that comes to mind is she is simply looking for attention she is not getting from her boyfriend. It could be other things too.

[handsomelad70]

She's probably flirting with you.(There are few better things than seeing a picture of a buxom babe in her bra.)

[MairimBP]

I totally agree with you, she's looking for attention. But sending those kind of pics to a male friend when you have a boyfriend that's just disrespectful to everyone: herself, her boyfriend, and her friend.

[_Maya_]

@MairimBP exactly

[Anonymous]

There's only two main possibilities. If it was a mistake, she'd have contacted you immediately to deny and beg you to delete it. If she didn't do that, then it wasn't a mistake. She fancies you and this is the most obvious thing she can do to let you know.

There are, however, other possibilities. Such as her boyfriend is jealous as fuck and sent this to you to see if your reaction was a friends reaction or a horn-dog's reaction.

To combat this - call her. Tell her you liked the picture, but ask her if she meant to send it or did someone hack her phone or something. Give her the out. But (and this is important) let her know you LIKED it, first.

[RebelinSteel]

Context is important, the conversations you usually have with them before this event. However as @_Maya_ and @MairimBP have said it could be accidental and it could be attention seeking, either way it’s disrespectful to all parties involved.
for me personally seeing a friend in a bra is not sexual, as I’ve seen them in bras, bikini over the years and they are simply boobs. Without an emotional connection with them, they may as well send a photo of a book lol.

[elizamichale1]

It could either be a mistake or she wants ur opinion on tht
N oh she could be teasing u or be into u

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Out of the kindness of your heart you should cash app her $5.00.

[Purpleronnie]

I’ve had the “ omg , I accidentally sent that “ from a girl before and ex’s trying to get a reaction but they were single and just trying to get attention but with a boyfriend and doing that , I doubt he would approve but I guess I couldn’t be certain it wasn’t sanctioned. Either way though it’s nasty. Delete and block , unless the picture also contained her face in which case make her b/f aware. Skank !

[MisterWack]

If she has a boyfriend then leave her as a friend since she clearly wants to cheat on her boyfriend with you…

P. S. Don’t even dare to take her, if she is willing to leave a boyfriend for another guy you’ll be next in line buster!

[Anonymous]

I got a similar pic from a friend a couple of years ago. We often flirt with each other but the photo was something new and I was quite appreciative but can't/won't act on it because I'm married.

If I was single I guarantee I'd actually on it...

[AviatorTom]

My guess is that it was sent in error, a fat fingers error. She probably intended to send it to her boyfriend but tapped your name instead in her phone.

Or, maybe she was playing truth or dare with her girlfriends...

[tzdc21]

If she has a boyfriend and is sending those photos that means she's open to cheating on him with you. If you're smart, you'll stay away from that cheater of a friend you have.

[Summeroflove]

Tell her to leave you alone and block her. You don’t need someone like that in your life especially if she has a boyfriend. Also tell her boyfriend what happened. Save him from wasting time with her

[Miristheiss]

Was there any comment with it? Asking if you thought she looked good or wanting to know if you thought they looked saggy or was it just a picture with nothing said?

[andreasderjuengere]

No one ever has asked for a bra in the picture.

I'm thoughtsing that she's a bit on the prude side?

[JacobJordan]

Tell the boyfriend so he doesn't waste his life

[Lokiion]

As @elizamichale1 said she just want your opinion this also coming from my personal experience

[elizamichale1]

😊😊

[Anonymous]

I don’t think you’re supposed to ask for that sort of pic….


But if you’re not both single, tell her to stop so things don’t get messy.

[sheikalana]

Thirsty for attention. Seems like she's trying to cheat on her boyfriend.

[goebenbreslau]

she just wants to be naughty. i experienced the same thing.

[Wise4myage]

If a girl sent me a pic of herself in a bra, Id assumed she was interested in me.

[handsomelad70]

What boy wouldn't?

[DextroShade]

Fuck her, then forward the pics to her boyfriend. This is why I would never take a woman seriously who has male friends.

[Danisgivingit]

Id say it depends on the context. Sexy pose? She wants more. Casual? Maybe she is just comfortable. Maybe not realizing? Just naive.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Id have very serious words about that starting with why the fuck would you send this to me

[kellytheman]

She just probably want a guys opinion and wonder if her guy would like it.

[Staximus]

Tell her she has a boyfriend and you don't play second fiddle.