Why is it a losing battle either way you do it if a woman has kids or doesn’t have kids people always finding something to say?

[Anonymous]

Like if you do have kids people be talking about where is the daddy or you should have wanted to have kids so you didn’t have kids by a loser and if you don’t they be asking why don’t you have kids what are you wanting for? And your biological clock is ticking.

[ohsheeT]

. Why would you want to even look at it like that it's actually in the added bonus not a losing battle..

When you talk to people and people talk back to you they are showing you and telling you who they are no matter what they say or do they are explaining who they are in life take it as a positive now you know you don't want to be with that person because of that type of thinking they have towards your ex are there your baby's daddy's or whatever it's called listen to what people are saying to you it doesn't matter what they're saying just listen they will tell you exactly who they are and then you can make a decision on if you want to be with that person or not it's actually a bonus when people talk not a losing battle you're the winner no matter what but you have to listen..

And you're also in control you control what you want to talk about you don't need to talk about anything and everything that somebody else wants to talk about change the subject

[jahaims]

Having kids with no dad shows you make poor choices. Being single and childless makes people think you are undesirable because no one has wanted you like that yet.

[Asker]

Ok but most young guys only want sex so it is better for her to stay single all the way up until she gets married. Because I'm not doing that single parent stuff I do what is best for me.

[noemiii]

But if the tables were turned and you were consistently labeled a dead beat dad and undesirable as a man for no longer being with the women you had children with, EVEN IF you paid child support, you’d want to spin the narrative. A woman wouldn’t be pregnant in the first place without the sexual negligence of a man, no matter how you look at it.

[Asker]

@noemiii most guys who are deadbeats don’t acknowledge people that he has kids.

[jahaims]

Nah, I've only had sex with one person, and that is my wife. I'm not trash, so I don't have to worry about being a baby daddy.

[Anonymous]

Women are expected to be a lot in today’s world but then also to want to come home to a 1950’s style mentality where they do whatever the man in their life wants. Some get married, some don’t. The stress affects the ability to make babies etc and the guys consider it all “female hysteria” without acknowledging their part in it.

[IslaTheWitch]

You can't force people to stop saying things, but you can change how you perceive what they say... So it's on your side if you get triggered and feel bad or you just don't care

[DonFredoCorleone]

As an Italian nationalist, I want to tell you this: First of all, you should know that I understand you. Women have an innate maternal instinct and that's why they are so valuable. Family is the most important institution and is very valuable in terms of ensuring the continuation of the race. I always tell women this: you have every right to be proud because one day you will be the mother of an Italian man.