Is it odd that all the women that have rejected me in life have all been heavily influenced by media outlets as the main commonality between them?

[Dan_5001]

All the other features & aspects are not the same that they all possessed something different. & The ones that did so choose friendship or were interested to the point they had to meet me in real life.

[_Maya_]

How can you be so sure that is what influenced them? Did they specifically state that is what influences their lives? Because if not then you really don't know what does. You can make that assumption but you never know who/what influences a person in their mind. Maybe they all consumed similar media online or whatever you are referring to but that still doesn't mean they make decisions based on that and that alone. Maybe some did and maybe some didn't. Maybe none did. You are just making a really big assumption that it controlled their choices unless of course they directly told you.

[Dan_5001]

No, the one's that do like me all & I mean all of them hardly use social media, a few don't want to no more because it affects mental state & to the point that it doesn't control or abide to even the women I'm dating rn she's hardly post or go on their often. The one's that do use it obsessively were the one's that said no, That can't be a coincidence.

[msc545]

Classic correlation = causation error here.

[Dan_5001]

@msc545 Okay Albert

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’re basically asking if the internet is responsible for you not getting a date. I want you to really think about how you would rather blame the entire internet for your rejections rather than the one actual common denominator in your interactions with them.

[Dan_5001]

No I have had dates just people who aren't obsessed or glued to screens most of their time.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Good, enjoy them and stop worrying about the girls who don’t want you

[NathanDavis]

maybe cause you contacted them and felt entitled to them accepting you "just because you shoot your shot" and you did it so influenced by modern media takes as well?

[Dan_5001]

People were shooting their shot before the social media apps lol?

[Dan_5001]

I never said or quoted "I felt entitled to"

[NathanDavis]

if you feel rejected is only you because you felt entitled to it...

that's the point

[Dan_5001]

I didn't say it only me who gets rejected I don't see your angle?

[NathanDavis]

people, and it is not about gender...

people are not obligated to accept someone's advances just because they were approached... so they are not "rejecting" people, they are just saying "no thanks, not interested"

and even if they gave you a chance or even if they approached you first based on whatever impression, and it didn't work out for them... then it just didn't work out

but to go on and say "all these women reject me" as if you had to be just accepted, that's a sense of entitlement, and it doesn't work like that, should not be working like that either

don't be accepted... be chosen, that's more real and aim to make that happen

[exitseven]

I think most young people are heavily influenced by the media..

[Dan_5001]

That is true to some extent.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎