I suck my thumb, and I'm 19?

[JonnyGR]

Its harmless behavior , in which I'm not obliged to change, since its comforting through secretion of endorphin's. Just the association nothing more.

What I'm curious of is how people, girls in particular judge this.

Always seen as a respectful, sensitive but genuin guy - noted for my very strong muscles and natural mesomorph physic at school.

I only do it in moments of arousal or relaxation. Probably a problem if my partner found it a turn off, as these are the moments I assume girls cherish the most lol. So... thoughts?

[Scorpi]

I used to be a big thumb sucker when I was little, but the teachers at school used to always make me stop. Just like you, it was my comfort thing. I can't imagine doing it at this age though. I don't really see it as an issue, as long as you don't do it in the middle of a fancy restaurant when you're on dates its fine lol

[JonnyGR]

Lol, never really do it in public, I'm not relaxed or aroused lol, hopefully. Used to do it on bus journeys home, some kids realized, friends never had a problem with it, close ones. But I later became mates with them on the bus lol. But thanks for your answer :) ... id adore a thumb sucking girlfriend lol.

[Tserandlikeit]

Love dating thumb suckers as I'm one myself! :)

[SweetApathy]

Different people like different things. I think any understanding person would overlook silly things like that and be able to relate and know why. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Sometimes I wake up with my thumb in my mouth too : )

[JonnyGR]

so sweet :) lol

[SweetApathy]

You.

[JonnyGR]

me?

[3336PS]

Huahaha that is so cute. My best friends husband who is in his 30s still sucks his dumb(especially when he is watching tv. I personally think its cute. No diff. with those who has to bring their teddy or pillow when they travel.

[JonnyGR]

awww :) lol ... yah teddies and sucking thumbs with girls is a turn on for me too I guess :) ... thanks for your answer :)

[MustangGod]

You said it yourself. You're 19 and suck your thumb. Its yours, suck it if you want. Of course you will be judge by it, but if not by that, then people will find something else to judge you on. Better sucking on your thumb than someone else's. lol

[JonnyGR]

Very true lol. Just curious as to what peoples judgements WERE. Like I said, I'm not changing me for nobody. But thanks for your answer :)

[iveth]

aww I think that is actually cute.my brother sucks his thumb and his 7 his embarased but I think its fine that is what you guys do to relax so don't stop that habbit. and if the girl really likes you it won't be a turn off...

[JonnyGR]

Lol. He shouldn't be :) were all so different, there's no possible way you could define and defiant 'norm' to be applied to everyone, since we all differ so much. Only an average I guess. Buts that's statistical not to be taken too literally as undeniable fact.

[JonnyGR]

Thanks for your answer by the way :)

[iveth]

i know I tell him all the time lol but oh well and yeah I know everyone is difrent but you asked how girls and people see it so the way I see it is cute and a lot of us girls think that lol

[JonnyGR]

Well... I must admit, I was anticipating maybe one or two answers like that, but mostly honest answers saying it wasn't appealing at all. But I'm thrilled to see it is appealing :) ... I suppose the combination of child like characteristics and maturity as well as I guess some masculine traits seem to have certain appeal in that sense? I've always thought its a cute thing in girls :).

[JonnyGR]

But also thought it was less masculine, and therefore less appealing.

[iveth]

i agree lol

[iveth]

but not about the last part lol

[JonnyGR]

lol fair doo's.. Whys that though? :P

[avome]

If I genuinely like you, I'd find it adorable and accept you the way you are and ask if I could suck your thumb as well..haha!

So yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with it XD

[JonnyGR]

Awwwww :) That's sweet. Id adore that lol. I'm sure id get a lot more aroused from you sucking on my thumb though lol :)

[avome]

I'm flattered..! I'd get aroused if I suck on my thumb too :D

For not feeling that you have to change, I think you're super cool! I mean, lots of people feel they have to act like another person just to get along..oh that includes me too I guess. I'm tired of acting~~ XP

[JonnyGR]

lol, well, I'm getting aroused just hearing about it! :P ... Hmmm, too much criticism and judgement in this world. But its instinct, nature. I'm aware inside personally, since like I've stated I'm quite umm, intra-personal? I guess.

But I have insecurities and confidence issues minimal in some area's. As does everyone I guess. But I'm trying to change my attitude and be more confident and decisive since my birthday, which was last week :) But good for you, hope you do the same missy :P

[avome]

Happy belated birthday~! Ahhh...to be 19 again.! haha

Well thanks mister. I sure hope we'll become a better person in this stinky world :D

[JonnyGR]

The world is what you make of it missy ;) ... my worlds starting to smell better though :P ... and thank you ;) ... I wish I could step back more than a few years though. Perfectionist you see, never satisfied :P

[avome]

Since you're already spouting all these wisdom words, may I ask for some advice to spray some perfume into my world..? :) Oh please don't step back. If you do, you might not be the person you are now..a thumb-sucker full of wisdom..and uhm positivity.! if its even a word XD

[JonnyGR]

Well nooo... I mean step back like a time machine, but sustaining the knowledge I have now, therefore... righting my wrongs. Only pursuing and developing myself to the best I can with the knowledge I have :P . Some very nice comments miss! You must share the same traits to acknowledge such characteristics :P ... how may I be of assistance?

[avome]

nooo...bad things come to those who meddle with time :P

Uhm excuse me little boy, I don't usually suck my thumb. Wisdom is subjective but I'm sure I'm not filled with positivity. So I'd like to ask of you to assist me those areas you're good at minus the thumb-sucking :D

[JonnyGR]

Are you assuming I'm skilled in my thumb sucking ability? If there were such a classification :P. A formal way of talking is not an indication of intelligence may I point out miss :P Only subjective vocabulary, and humoring of intellectual speech in my case ;) . But I am very intra-personally aware, and can be helpful in that sense. So... you just inform me of the case in which needs cracking. :P

[avome]

Okay... I might have used the wrong vocabulary..haha!

It's been a while since I met someone online who's fun to talk to. Nice to meet you bo-boy! :)

So, what do you feel when you get a pat on the head?

[JonnyGR]

Patronized :P. You wouldn't dare, you'd regret it missy ;) ... I may be playful, but I can be dominantly playful you know :P. But ill take the compliment ;) ... thank you missy, ill consider your kind words when I'm pinning you for depriving me of dignity through your patronizing act :P .. hopefully it will work in your favour ;)

[avome]

Oh, behave yourself little boy~ I didn't mean to give you a pat on the head. I was just asking for your opinion XD But if you do pin me, I sure hope to get some patting on my head. Like how you like sucking your thumb, I sure feel comfortable if I'm patted in the head. Difference is, doing it myself is not as satisfying..haha

[JonnyGR]

Patting on the head huh? If that's your thing :P ... much rather get a pat somewhere else in my opinion... lol. OK ill behave :P ... just have a high libido is all. I'm sure the patting can be arranged, but id much rather you pin me miss :P ... I get tired of never being beaten physically ;) ... just too strong is all. Its a curse :P

[avome]

be careful of what you ask for little boy.. I have confidence in my strength.!.XD

better do something about your libido tho :P... well, this missy has to go now. it's atmost 6am here, and there's a lot of work to be done :) happy birthday again~ I'll send you a pat on the head...telepathically! XD

[JonnyGR]

Tiz not possible! Tiz a physical act! :P ... Hmmm... well... thankful it isn't anyway. Id have a hell of a trip getting wherever you be stationed :P ... Not worth a mere momentary pin -__-. Pfft, I may not weight train missy, but I am very able with my strength ;) ... but if you confident bring it on :P. And thank you miss ;) you sleep well, and work easy :P

[Randomgirl987]

aww that's adorable! well the only real bad thing about it is it could ruin your teeth, use a thumb guard.. honestly I don't see how it's a turn off though its cute:)

[JonnyGR]

lol, thanks :) ... I did have braces for a few years but, hmmm, my teeth aren't too bad, bit angled 2 at the front, but hopefully ill fix that in the future, rest are fine and straight lol. But what's a thumb guard?

[Randomgirl987]

well it's for people/children that suck their thumbs.. protects your teeth and you can still suck on your thumb all you want!:)

[JonnyGR]

Ill look it up... thanks for the answer :)

[clarissica]

hey lots of girls made a positive comment ! so I guess it is okay... just find the partner who will love it and never stop sucking your thumb :D

[JonnyGR]

Ill keep that in mind :P ... pfft... I'm sure masculine behavior would also be desired ;) ... Just need to find the right mix of my dominance with innocence :P.

[PinkcupcakeXD]

that would be a good idea...

[Anonymous]

Hey, your not alone :D I'm a thumb sucker, too. LOl

[JonnyGR]

Awwwww cute :) awesome

[AltTech]

Do you wear a diaper and and use pacifiers as well?

[JonnyGR]

You should be proud of your unimpeachable Witt.

[imperatriz]

I am presently unable to ascertain whether thou art trolling or severely incapable of intelligent thought.

[Black_Swan_12]

lol

[JonnyGR]

Did I say something foolish on this diversely topical site? lol

[amatuer_zombie]

replace thumb by p**** and you'll be fine

[Anonymous]

Its okay, I judge guys who suck their thumbs too

[MarcusDavis]

U might be gay...