I was in Barcelona the other night when I got talking to this gorgeous girl. She started talking to me so I approached her (I was drunk so I wasn't completely shy) and we really hit it off. We talked about all kinds of things and we started flirting a lot. But she said she had a boyfriend and nothing was gonna happen between us. That was cool. But towards the end of the conversation she said I seem a little cocky. I was thinking ''wtf?!''. Cocky is the one thing I am not. I then asked her ''would you believe me if I told you I was shy?'' and she replied ''no way''. I was really confused.
I mean if I am drunk I can understand if I become more confident and can talk to girls more easily. But I never thought I would go as far as being cocky. Even now I don't remember doing or saying anything remotely cocky.
Why do you think this is? I was thinking maybe that I've spent so many years being the shy guy that when I am drunk I may end up overcompensating for my shyness and instead of becoming confident I actually go further than that and become cocky. Or maybe it's because such a pretty girl has never given me that kind of attention.
What do you think?
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