Do guys like cold hearted bitches?

[Anonymous]

I'm not mean(I'm actually really nice), but I put up a front you know like trying to protect my heart. A lot of guys have insulted me in the past because I "rejected" them and I never said a word to them. Apparently I have this look which I'm not aware of that says "you are not good enough for me." I've not been in very many relationships but all of them ended really well. I've just seen all my friends get repeatedly burned by guys, so I'm what you call the scary cat. Is this a good strategy? I don't put out easily either. Do you think I'll weed out the chaff by putting up a front?

[toulouse]

no one likes anyone who is copping a certain attitide -w/e the attitude may be-just to get something.

if you can't be who you r, why exactly would anyone want to be with u. they would never know what the hell was real.

guys who do not want to get to you , will be attracted, because its less work. they don't have to get to know someone who does not make themselves available to know.

guys h have souls will be bored, because you're fake, & lack compassion. or the facility to use it. at

at certain point, the reason, you are the way you r, stops being a factor, in someones decision, to not be involved with u. that point does not take a terribly long time, to attain.

if you are cld because you want to be alone, fine. all the more power to u. but being cold, to attract warmth, does not work.

imo, worry less about getting hurt & more about living a real life. hurt is part of life,. if you fake your way through life-- what's the f***ing point?

[toouglytobeloved]

i hate cold hearted girls they will be alone their whole lives and die alone too ... and oh your friends get burned by guys probably because they only go for the jerks in the first place instead of the good guys that girls always reject or ignore

[HeroOfVillains]

Not really. I usually like girls that are open and friendly. Actually colder women I tend end up with just for sex, for exactly that reason, they are colder so they don't get as attached and are not into much romance.

[posted]

Well you're more intimidating

lets say this

shy guys - 100% intimdated

Somewhat sociable 75% intimidated

Social guys 50% intimidated

Cocky guys 0% intimidated

So basically you'll attract more cocky guys.

[Anonymous]

If anything youd attract more douchie cocky guys and scare off the nice shy guys because they would all be too intimidated to approach but no guys do not like cold hearted bitches